I was very, very excited when I ordered the Feeldoe Stout|Feeldoe Stout because the idea of a harnessless fuck seemed so new and endlessly exciting. The reality is that this is not an easy toy to use, but with practice, you can incorporate it into your sex life in some very versatile ways.

When I got it, I ripped open the package, stimulated myself a little bit, and put the bulbous end in. It was interesting, to say the least, to see myself with a dildo protruding directly from my pussy. It is heavy, especially the stout version, and some people won’t be able to hold it in. I have strong vaginal muscles, and I can hold it in even while standing for a little while, but especially when you’re moving, gravity will have its way, and it will tend to expel itself.

The main problem with missionary and doggie style positions is that the external dick is just too short for me and my lover, both of whom are full bodied. I would imagine that it would function better and offer more length for people with smaller bodies. But for us, the one thing that would have made this double dildo an unqualified success would have been maybe three more inches on the dildo end. When I wear it, the dildo lies against my stomach and has to be pulled down a bit in order to be inserted into another, which adds to the awkwardness. With missionary sex, it’s just too short to stay inside my lover while I’m thrusting; the best position for harness-free sex with this is actually girl-on-top. Using it with a harness makes everything a bit easier, but it’s still too short for us.

You can use the dildo in a variety of ways: without a harness, with a harness (especially Outlaw, which accommodates it easily with its two holes), with the bulbous head as a butt plug (for an experienced ass only), with the bulbous head as a convenient handle, with the bulbous head inside the person receiving a blow job. Imagine all the positional combinations: pussy to pussy, ass to pussy, hand to pussy, mouth to pussy etc. I got the stout version for my partner, because she enjoys a full dildo, and she does say that the curve feels divine inside of her, especially when I use it manually.

The bullet is not very strong and runs out of juice fairly quickly—something that can easily be fixed by replacing the batteries or adding a mini-bullet with a cord that takes double AA batteries in its external compartment. Also, the toy is made of very hard silicone, which doesn’t transmit vibrations easily, but is a high quality hygienic material that’s very easy to keep clean, even sterilize.