Feeldoe slim was my first experience with strap-on dildos and I found it to be a bit more challenging than anticipated. This is a versatile toy that can be used in many ways, albeit your options may be limited regarding your size and muscular control.

For hetero play where the woman penetrates the man, the Feeldoe is supposed to be "held" in place by the woman clenching her vaginal muscles; hence the tout of being a vaginal exerciser. However, the size of the bulb end that is inserted in the vagina seemed large, heavy and rather cumbersome. I felt that either my vaginal muscles weren't up to par or that maybe because it was so big, that I couldn't get a good "grip" on it with a comfortable degree of control.

My partner also found that the size was simply too large for him as well. We purchased the Feeldoe slim model as we knew that size might be a concern and unfortunately, the four inch plus circumference was just too much. I feared his discomfort and kept my prods very gentle, but full insertion was not comfortably possible.

With a dildo harness keeping everything in place, the play was a bit easier as I had more control and nothing could precariously slip at the wrong moment. I enjoyed the ridges at the base that rubbed against my clit when I pushed and thrusted my hips. My partner enjoyed being teased a bit with the head against his ass, especially when we turned on the vibrating bullet, but again, insertion, due to the size, had to be slow and careful.

The material of the Feeldoe is great as the silicone warms up quickly and is very smooth. However, there is some seaming that runs across the product dorsally, and while I did not notice it, my partner did. I enjoyed the vibrating bullet feature and I found that the overall construction of the product is excellent- I'm sure this double ended dildo can last for years of play. Being able to boil it for complete sterilization is a great plus too.

Overall, I found that Feeldoe dildo is great for experimentation and play. While I knew that my partner was not ready to hold the bulb end inside his ass to enable double penetration on me, the idea excites us and I do think that in time, (and with lots of lube) we may be able to go that route. This toy has a lot of potential and would be a great addition to an advanced ass connoisseur's tool set, providing he/she has strong pelvic muscles and enjoys larger products.