The Feeldoe experience is a bit lopsided for us. My partner, the "receiver," loves it. It is the perfect width and length for someone who prefers slim and long dildos. She feels deep penetration with it. The angle at which my body holds it hits her g-spot, however, you shouldn't expect it to rub the clitoris. It's more suited to those who cum from penetration.

For me, I'm a little disappointed in the product. I admit I cannot handle thick dildos, so the "bulb" that I hold inside of me is a bit too large for my liking. Since it's wider than it is long, it doesn't give me the deep penetration that my partner gets. When I'm using it, I wish it was just a little longer, so that it might hit my g-spot, but it stops short of that. It comes with a vibrating bullet that you slip inside its base, but it's not strong enough to enhance the experience. There's no clitoral stimulation on this end either, so I have to do a little manual work to get the job done.

You don't have to worry about the Feeldoe slipping out of place, at least when lying down. The bulb is big enough that it stays in position. My partner can ride me quite hard without it popping out of either of us.

The Feeldoe is made of silicone, so it's easy to clean and germ-resistant. We stick with water-based lube and stay away from the silicone-based stuff because they don't mix well together. Silicone also makes for a smoother ride, so oftentimes we don't need lube at all.

The Feeldoe is a different experience. It's more intimate because it doesn't require straps that rub against your skin. Our bodies are fully touching. It's better at simulating male-female intercourse than any strap-on could do. Plus, both people are getting something out of it at the same time, rather than doing each other one at a time. We haven't experienced anything like the Feeldoe with any other toy.