Having never known the experience that is a double-ended dildo before, both my partner and I were a little intimidated by the notion of navigating the Nexus Jr. I mean, what if I looked silly? What if I couldn’t figure it out? What if the planet stopped spinning, and we all flew off? Fortunately, due to fantastic materials and an ingenious design, the encounter turned out spectacularly, and Earth continued to rotate as per usual.

Being a maverick, I thought trying the toy out without a harness would be interesting. Interesting was definitely the right word for it. Without the aid of a harness, in any position other than both lying on your back with legs entwined, keeping the Nexus Jr. involved in the action is a monumental task. When a harness is involved, however, it’s an entirely different world. It might as well have been my personal dick, considering how great and natural it felt for both of us.

Without unusually strong kegel muscles, you could have some difficulties keeping the curved end of the Nexus Jr. in place. Again, a harness aids in this task tremendously, but the size and contours require the wearer pay some degree of attention so the whole contraption doesn’t come undone on a particularly quick backwards thrust.

One genius element of the design is the ridges on the curved end. They form a perfect ergonomically-mindful series of contours for holding in the hand. Essentially, if you’re not in the mood to use the Nexus Jr. as a double-ended dildo, it can always function as a regular dildo with a convenient handle.

Being the Jr. version, it’s not overly sized, meaning that anyone can enjoy it without trepidation. I’m not often a fan of big, burly penetrating devices, and this toy certainly fit the bill for a toy that wouldn’t leave me sore later. If you would prefer to be sore later, I guess you could just be a little more vigorous.