I got this jelly dildo for my wife because sometimes she likes larger penetrating toys. This one is really on the large size. It is made of PVC Jelly so as far as I know, you can use most lubes. We always use water based lubes (they just seem to clean up easier). It is soft but has a good firmness to it. It did not have any particular smell to it, and we clean it with soap and water. It does not attract too much dust, lint or hair but some things will stick to it. It just comes packaged in a clear bag. We have found that some of the jelly toys tend to stick together in our toy box so you might consider some sort of storage bag to keep it in.

The suction cup works well on vertical or horizontal surfaces, but to be honest, we never use the suction cup feature. My wife has to be in a particular mood to want to use this dildo. Odds are we have already been having sex or already done some vaginal penetration before using this toy. I will use a ton of lubrication, and once I slowly insert the toy, she does enjoy it. We use it in conjunction with a vibrator on her clit. She has stated that she can be a little sore the next day after using this toy.

In my opinion, this toy is way too big for either of us to consider using anally. The suction cup will work for a harness with the o-ring attachment. I do not think we will ever use this toy with our harness. In the future, I would like to try it out in the shower or attach it to a chair, but that is completely up to the wife.