The Softee Ballsy Super is a great toy if you prefer girth and flexibility. It is compatible for couples play because you can hook it up to a harness. It is to be used vaginally and anally. The base of the softee can be stabilized on a surface for you to sit on it. I would not recommend this for a beginner, due to the size. I was even intimidated by the size of this dildo. If anything, it would make an awesome gag gift for some people.

Softee is made of Sil-a-gel and PVC. It feels more realistic because it is velvety and has a vein design going up and down and all around the shaft of the 9" dildo, even though the name says 8", it definitely measures 9", and feels even bigger! Due to the velvet feel, it is more of a comfortable dildo to use when you are using it with a proper lubricant. I used pink water lubricant. There was a very distinct smell when I opened the package of the Softee and that was of blueberries! I think I spent more time smelling it, instead of playing with it!

Personally, the design and shape of Softee was very realistic, minus the color and size. We all know the average man isn't 9" long, but Softee could be a dream to any woman who wants someone well endowed! I still believe it is more of an asset to an experienced "player" who is more willing to experiment with a larger size dildo. Due to the size, it isn't very easy to conceal, but in my case, it fits perfectly well in my bedside drawer. This is not a very travel friendly toy.

Softee has a suction cup and is harness compatible, which makes for its best features. The suction function worked well for the Softee. I was able to maneuver myself without holding the shaft to mount it. It is shower friendly, which is where I was able to experiment with the suction cup feature. Due to the flexibility of the Softee, it was easy to use in multiple positions of play. I did not try it with the harness, I just know that it is O-ring harness compatible from the description.

Softee is very easy to care for since it is made of Sil-a-gel and PVC. It can be easily washed with soap and warm water. You can also use an antibacterial toy cleaner of your choice, such as Antibacterial Toy Cleaner. It is always best to use a water based lubricant when using this toy, similar to the one I showed above.