Softee is not an exaggeration! This toy has a super-soft, super smooth, velveteen texture that is absolutely fantastic. The toy itself is rather plush and bendable, which is great, especially for a toy this size. The toy's texture may be great, but be careful not to let any hair or lint get on it because it clings to the toy and is a real pain to clean off. Also, when I rubbed too hard in one spot, it lost its color and texture slightly.

As far as size goes, this is the biggest toy I've ever purchased, but I was still excited to get it. It's quite large, but the thickest part of the toy is definitely the head. It took me a while to comfortably use this toy, but when I did, it was definitely worth it; the head of the toy is big enough so that, if you position it correctly, it hits your g-spot. Because this toy is so big, I definitely wouldn't recommend this to anyone unless they were ready for a bigger toy. Even though this toy is very soft and malleable, it takes a bit to get used to, so my advice would be to use plenty of lube.

As far as this goes as an anal toy, I haven't tried it, and I don't think I will; the material is porous and, as I mentioned before, this toy is almost too big for vaginal use. Sadly, I think this toy might even be too big for harness use, so if you want a big harness toy, keep looking.

Regardless, this toy is pretty awesome just by itself; it's not too big, not too small, and the texture is fantastic. If you're looking for something that is not too big and not too small, this toy should be just right.