This toy is such an awesome concept! As a lesbian, I am constantly afraid of the stereotypical "bed death" so my partner and I do everything we can to avoid it. Even with the wide range of dildo shapes and harness styles out there, after a while you start to feel a disconnect from one partner at a time orgasms. The Feeldoe has definitely fixed that in our house. What a unique design the Feeldoe has: a smaller bulbed end that is made to be inserted into the "giver" and a larger shaft for the "receiver"'s pleasure, while the area that joins them together boasts some spiffy little ridges as well as a tube like area meant to hold the bullet vibrator that comes with it. The nice thing about the design is, thanks to the bulbed end, a harness is not required... well as long as you are the queen of the kegel! Even if you're not, over time just using this toy will definitely help in that department... awesome penetrative sex for both parties AND a stronger vagina? Yep, its that cool.

PLUS, this is absolutely my favorite solo masturbation toy EVER!!! Instead of using the bulb like a handle as another reviewer suggests, I put it in just like I was going to penetrate my partner, but then stimulate the shaft with my hand. MOST AMAZING G-SPOT ORGASM I'VE EVER HAD!!!! I now know why guys sit around and jerk-off all the time! I was worried that my partner would think this was weird if she ever saw it, but she caught me one time and apparently found it really hot. She even requests it sometimes now!

I HATE stinky toys, so I have a lot of dildos that live in a Tupperware container in my closet. The Feeldoe, however, is nestled down to sleep every night in its soft cozy bed in my panty drawer. When I wake up and fish out a pair for the new day, NEVER have I had any lingering sex toy smell to steal my morning sunshine! Plus, it's taste free as well, so I don't mind it when my partner wants to watch me give her head.

I won't say that this toy is very realistic in any way; its blue, completely smooth on the shaft and rather firm, but the material and design lends itself to a REALLY long play time with no negative results. I get very irritated by some toys and have never, had so much as a tingle of discomfort.

As for the size, I originally picked out this design because my partner had never been penetrated before and I thought it would be smart to start with something smaller. After using it, I think that we could have definitely went up a size or two, but this one would be PERFECT for anal play (which we are unfortunately not into).

As I mentioned before, it is meant to be a harness free toy, but does require pretty impressive kegel strength to really use it without it slipping in and out pretty frequently. Also some positions, well really ANY position that doesn't allow for your legs to be pressed together, would be better off just using a harness.

One major complaint I have is that my partner and I are both bigger girls and although we have "more cushion for the pushin" we sometimes get the shaft on shaft length. Unlike with your regular strap on which is mounted higher up, you may lose some length getting from your vagina to hers. Although this does make me sad, I know it's just due to the junk in my trunk and not the toy's shortcomings.

Oh, and the bullet battery button kept getting pushed accidentally and I would find it dead in the drawer. Over time I just gave up on using the bullet at all and it is still amazing without it.

Since it's silicone you want to be sure to use a water based lube, and I suggest having some handy toy cleaning wipes around as it does hold on to lint and fuzz with all its might!

Even with it's lint clinging issue, a real thorough scrubbing is not difficult at all. You can use antibacterial soap, boil it for a few minutes, or dip it in a bleach solution. The package even said it's top rack dishwasher safe!

The one thing I do caution you about is if you are using the soap or dishwasher method make sure you are cleaning the area the bullet slips down in as it may not be hit by the water stream.