I was initially attracted to this glass wand because of the heart pattern. I have a collection of heart toys, so this was kind of a must have for me. I bought the ‘Red Sweetheart’ and Icicles No. 32 for Valentine’s Day, and they are so adorable paired together!

Red Sweetheart is a textured glass wand, with a straight shaft and flared base. It is made out of super durable Pyrex, making it shatter-resistant, safe to heat or cool, and incredibly easy to clean! You can use any lube or toy cleaner you prefer on this toy and it won’t damage or weaken the material. It’s also safe to run through your dishwasher or boil! I have boiled mine without any issues. I do worry about the red color on the hearts wearing off, but so far I haven’t had any problems.

The size of Red Sweetheart is just right for me. Inserting her is quite easy with a little bit of lube. The smooth, bulbous head, contrasted with heart nubs on the shaft, feel amazing against my vaginal opening and walls. I do not have any problems with the heart nubs causing irritation. This may be because I always use lube with toys.

I personally find the straight shaft a bit jarring at times. I guess I prefer a slight curve. Because of this, I like this wand a little more for solo play. When used with a partner, I find myself having to constantly instruct them to slow down, not go so deep, or tilt the toy a different angle. I don’t mind giving direction, but sometimes it’s nice to just sit back and relax. During solo play, the straight shaft is much less of a problem, and I can even use this wand to stimulate my G-spot if I angle her correctly.

The flared base makes Red Sweetheart safe for anal play as well. I prefer a flared base in any glass dildo I purchase for that reason. I have used Red Sweetheart anally and liked it, but I will admit it’s not my favorite toy for anal. I prefer plugs or beads. Though I do like the option, I didn't purchase this wand for anal play, so it’s not really a problem for me. Having a flared base is also nice to use as a handle.

Red sweetheart and I get along pretty well. Though she's not my number one toy, I do enjoy her company. She'd make a great introductory wand for someone new to glass.

Red Sweetheart next to Icicles No.32 (So adorable!)



Red Sweetheart on its own



Red Sweetheart size comparison