The Violet Wonder is a great double ended glass dildo that is suitable for both Gspot and Pspot play. Being a guy, my target is obviously the pspot, but I have used it with my girlfriend as well, and it also makes a very nice gspot dildo. Being a glass toy, it is unyielding, so you have use caution when thrusting with this. For partnered play, I would stay away from thrusting, but for solo play this pretty little knob is an awesome thrusting machine. While this is not flared at the base, I have not found this to be at risk of losing it up my ass. I prefer to use the wider bubbled end, and after the third bubble, it just feels like it's in too far. I addition to my body preferring a certain depth, I always have a hand on it because the stimulation is best when the dildo is being moved. At any rate, if you're using this in your ass, please be advised that it is possible to lose it up there if you're both not mindful of the flare-less base and you happen to have a very hungry ass.

The Violet Wonder is a glass dildo. For those that know glass, you will appreciate the range of textures on this toy. There is nothing lifelike about this dildo, but I honestly don't like realistic dongs going in my butt, as I'm straight and for some reason there is something unsettling about that for me. Be that as it may, I like to think of most glass dildo's as pleasure wands because they usually each are capable of bringing about vastly different sensations depending on their size, shape and texture. With the Violet wonder there is a pointy side that has a nice swirled texture, and the other side has a series of undulating bulbs. Both ends feel great from a texture perspective. One of the nice things about glass is the ability to heat it up or cool it down. I like it to be a little bit cool, so a minute or two in the fridge is all that I need get a little added pleasure bonus. Another word of caution here.... don't go crazy with the temperature play in either direction, no matter how adventurous you're feeling. All you need is a minute or two in the fridge or run it under some warm tap water if you want to go the other way. Any temperature that is out of body temperature range is going to feel different. As I mentioned above, this is a rigid and unyielding toy and because of that it's quite useful for putting pressure on the Pspot or Gspot, both of which like directed pressure.

The images for the Violet Wonder show a slight curve here on EF. When mine arrived in the mail, I was surprised to see that it really didn't have a curve at all. I figure there has to be some variation from one toy to the next given the material, so I didn't let the lack of a curve get me down. The two ends feel quite different going in. The pointy end is initially more forgiving, but if you choose to thrust with this end, it can actually be less so if a misdirected thrust hits something and you get a pointed poke. For this reason, I have usually opted to use this end to warm up with before switching to the bulbous end. The other end is really good for thrusting. The undulations are prominent, but not so much so that they entrap air on the way in and out. I have found this to be an issue with similarly shaped dildos, and it becomes a show stopping distraction. With the Violet wonder, all I feel is a pleasant up and down as it glides in and out...wonderful. Overall I think this is a good size for anyone male or female. For guys that are new to anal play, they might want to start with something a little bit smaller and more forgiving, but it wouldn't be insane to try this as a first anal dildo.

I'm pretty private in general, so as far as discreetness is concerned, I just opt to keep it hidden. I think most adults would be keen enough to pick up on this being a sex toy of some kind. The violet color is quite pleasant though, and I suppose that you could put it on display with other art glass if you happen to have any lying around. Being the ultimate bachelor dude... I don't so it's staying in my toy basket! I should think that you could get this plane, although you could probably inflict some pain on someone if you opted to actually use it as a weapon; I happen to be a lover not a fighter though.

I've really enjoyed testing this dildo out. Despite the initial disappointment of it lacking a curve, I have found that it can really deliver in the orgasm department. My favorite side is the thicker side, and I've been able to milk my prostate with it during sessions. My preferred way to use it is to start thrusting after taking some time to warm up and get it comfortable in there. I'll usually jack off with one hand while thrusting vigorously with my free hand until I'm just about to come, then I'll stop masturbating and continue thrusting until I get floored by a really intense orgasm. I honestly didn't have high expectations about this toy have the capability of doing that, but it has been more than a pleasant surprise. For partnered play, I've enjoyed gently probing my girlfriend's gspot with it, and she likes it too. Unlike other dildos that have come into my mailbox courtesy of EF, I have not allowed this one to sneak off in her purse.

I do wish the Violet Wonder had more of a curve to it. Even though I really do like and enjoy this dildo, it would be a lot easier to use if there was a curve. With mine being straight, I need to press up fairly hard while I'm thrusting to get good Pspot engagement, and this took me a little while to get the hang of.

Cleanup could not be easier for this toy. Like all glass toys, you can use any lube you desire and then a warm soapy rinse is all you need to get it clean. Being pyrex, you can boil this dildo if you want to share it with a partner. Glass can chip, and if it does happen to do so in a portion that you are going to have inside of you, it's time to throw it away. Luckily this probably won't happen if you don't drop it on a cement floor or hit it on a wrought iron fence for some strange reason. I'm most worried about it chipping by banging against one of my other glass toys. Fortunately, the Violet Wonder comes with a nice little velvet pouch for storage. While not lushly padded like a Don's Wands dildo for example, it is sufficient enough to keep the toy safe under normal circumstances.

One thing about this toy, and double ended dildos in general, is that it can be a hassle to use both ends during a session. I would like to use both ends more often, but for anal play this can become smelly and not so much fun without cleaning it first. For that reason, I usually stick to a side and just enjoy it. I think the key to getting the most out of a dildo like this is to find a position or two that makes it really comfortable to thrust and hit the spots you're looking to hit. This can take a little bit a practice, but one you get it going where you want it to, the pleasure reward is ample.