When it arrived, at first I was surprised at the sheer size of it even though the measurements are accurate. It is soft to the touch, hefty, but somewhat giving along its length. It is gorgeous to look at and hold.

On my first attempt, after some warm up with some smaller toys and with generous lubing, it slid right up. I felt each rib along its shaft and shuddered with each. I didn't know just how far I could go with it and was surprised when I got all the way up to the largest girth at the base of the shaft. I used the Liberator Pulse as a support and prop. I slowly and gently eased the XL out and back in repeatedly, just completely giving into it, relaxing into it, and just letting myself go into the feeling of it. After quite a period of gentle thrusting, of totally relaxing, and taking it in all the way to the base, I rocked back and forth feeling the fullness inside me.

I have quite a few toys. This is the first that compelled me to want to write a review in particular for men because I think a lot of men would really really appreciate a toy like this and how it feels.

I haven't tried it with my wife yet, but just the idea of her holding it over my prone body, has me excited and aroused.

So to finish up how this ended, suffice it to say that I eventually took things in hand, which only intensified the feeling of this thing in my butt. Ultimately I climaxed with shudders of excitement.

I can't say enough about this toy. If you've never tried a toy like this, which seems more like a woman's toy, don't be shy and you won't be disappointed in the least.