This dildo is big. Well, it would have to be in order to simultaneously reach all of those deliciously sensitive places a woman has on the inside. Really, though. It's big.

Because of the bigness and the special ergonomic shape of this toy, I don't use this like I would an "ordinary" dildo; that is to say that I don't use a whole lot of in-out motion. It already puts pressure in all the right places so I wouldn't really want to move it around. Instead, I like to squeeze my muscles around it to intensify those sensations.

I always use lube with this toy, and I don't even think about using it until I'm already turned on. I like to use my fingers on my clit once it's in, hold my Hitachi up against the base (the vibrations are transmitted through the silicone!), or slip a small bullet vibe into the handle. Yes, it stays.

The silicone is shiny and smooth, and there are no imperfections or untrimmed flashing to be found anywhere. Everything about this toy screams high-quality.

The Jollie is firm but still has a little bit of give. This is very helpful because of the size of the thing.

I want to high-five whoever designed this. It makes my entire vagina feel awesome, and the handle makes it extremely easy to use even when my hands are a bit slippery from the lube. I especially love the G-spot bump around the middle.

When I was missing my guy and needed an insertable, the Jollie did a more than adequate job. However, I wish that it gave me slightly better access to my clitoris during use.

The Jollie is made of silicone, which means wonderful things for your body, and the body of anyone you choose to share it with. Silicone is a non-porous, heat-resistant material, which means that it doesn't harbor bacteria and can be cleaned in a number of ways.

You can easily wash it with soap and warm water, which is fine after everyday use. However, if you do decide to do something a little different with it, like use it anally (I guess you could, if you like big things in there... the handle would keep it from slipping inside) or share with someone else, you should probably sterilize it thoroughly. This can be done either by boiling it, putting it in the top rack of the dishwasher, or by washing it with a 10% bleach solution.

Silicone can be a bit sticky for things like lint, so store it away from fabrics in a place where it isn't likely to get dusty. You should keep it away from other toys. I keep it in a drawer, wrapped up in tissue when it's not in use.

The Jollie made the three months I spent away from my boy much more tolerable.