I'm genderqueer and wear this to pack most days. I'm also a drag king and wear this every time I perform. It's a great product for any FTM, genderqueer, drag king, or in between. It creates a realistic looking bulge. I have also worn this swimming in a chlorinated pool, and it was just noticeable enough, and nothing bad happened to it from the chlorine.

When it first arrived, it had a strong plastic smell, but after wearing it for a day, it lost that smell. It looks and feels rather realistic, especially for the price. When compared to more expensive ones, I don't think they look as realistic as this. It's a bit more squishy and stretchy than a real penis. The material is latex and phthalates free. When I wear it to perform and I'm really jumping around and getting sweaty, it gets really sweaty too, rather than just absorbing the sweat. After washing, it becomes really sticky, especially on the back part that sits against your body, which has a smoother texture.

I was originally debating between getting the small and extra small because many people had stated that the extra small can sometimes make it look like you have an erection. I'm glad I went with the extra small, however. It's a realistic size for a flaccid penis, and I haven't had any problems with it looking too bulgy. The balls are a bit large; it would be nice if they were somewhat smaller. The length of the full product is 3 1/2", and the insertable length is 2 1/2". I think for anyone looking for a realistic bulge and not necessarily caring about the size of the actual packer, this is the perfect size. It looks very realistic for the price. It has a wrinkled texture and veins, and the head is detailed as well. It can be discreet if you want it to be, or you can make it look like you have a huge bulge. The color is the main unrealistic part; it is very pink. I haven't tried traveling with it yet.

This packer is incredibly easy to care for. I wash it every other day with warm water, and this gets it clean. I tried washing it with soap the first time, but you aren't supposed to do that, and it made it feel stickier. Some people use corn starch after washing it to get rid of the stickiness, but I haven't tried it yet, and the stickiness just goes away after wearing it a little while. I don't really store it since I wear it almost every day. It stays on my counter when I'm not wearing it. I haven't tried using any lubes with it, but you are only supposed to use water-based products with it.

This came in very discreet packaging. It arrived in a small, brown box and was wrapped in a clear, plastic bag. It didn't come with any instructions on use of the product. I would have liked if it had come with cleaning instructions, but I had to find those online.