Because of the suction cup, its size and color, and frankly cute overall appearance, this could be used solo or with a partner. Because it has a flared base, it could potentially be used for anal play as well. I tested the suction cup on various surfaces and was very pleased that it seemed to do well everywhere, from the shower to a textbook (I was curious...).

The Charmer is 100% silicone, which I love because it's easy to clean. Remember not to use silicone lube with this toy, though! The body-safe material glides along the skin, and it provides a great contrast to the texture of the ridges. The toy itself has a little bit of give to it, so while it's firm, it's not nearly as rigid as, say, a glass toy.

The suction cup is easy to use. I love the bulbous head; it does its job of finding the G-spot, and I imagine that since this has a flared base, some might find it adept at finding the prostate as well. The ridges don't add a lot for me personally, but some might find it more thrilling.

I love that the suction cup works well and holds up, even around water! The silicone is smooth, and it feels great to touch. However, I wish it was a little bit bigger. This would be an excellent toy for a beginner looking for their first suction dildo, or someone worried about insertion. It's not too girthy, and its length is much less intimidating than some other toys.

Because it's silicone, it couldn't be easier to care for this - silicone is boilable and dishwasher safe. It should be kept away from other silicone toys, preferably in its own case or pouch. Silicone lubes are not safe to use with silicone toys, so make sure you have the water-based one on hand!