This toy is definitely for the more experienced. After using it 3 times, I can say that it’s best used with water-based lube, as the insertable length is 8” and more than 2” in diameter. Once comfortable with it inside, the orgasms were absolutely AMAZING; best I’ve ever had with a toy and the real thing ;) It’s excellent at finding just the right spots to fill you up. The suction cup is a good addition to have as you can stick it somewhere to try new positions. Sticking it to my wall is by far my favorite, it feels bigger and hits my g-spot every time.



I was not expecting it to be that big at all, even with reading the measurements. It was a very pleasant surprise to have as my first dildo; definitely took some getting used to and A LOT of lube. Once the tip was fully inserted, I felt no discomfort and was able to get it deeper to maximize the contact it had with my g-spot. If you want a challenge, this bad boy is definitely for you.

It’s made out of silicone and is non-porous, which means the material does not harbor bacteria.
How to clean is really simple: it dishwasher safe, along with being able to be boiled. Completely sanitize with 5% bleach.

The easiest way to insert the Uptown Boyfriend XL is to have the balls facing up so the tip doesn’t hurt your clitoral region with insertion.