The First Mate is a gorgeous, girthy cock with semi-realistic features and a base for use with a harness. While 7 inches of insertable length may not sound like a lot, the three-finger diameter of this dildo makes it a substantial toy. The sculpted, ridged head provides direct G-spot stimulation when pulling in and out. The dildo tapers a bit toward the base, making the head and top half wider than the rest. This subtle graduation of the diameter has a noticeable effect.

The dildo is semi-realistic/realistic with veins and a prominent, sculpted head. The veins provide extra texture with ridges, which gives a distinct sensory experience. Believe me, the veins provide a lot more sensation than a ribbed condom! The dildo is straight (rather than curved) and long enough for very deep penetration. I like using the First Mate with a strap-on while I'm behind my partner, but with the dildo turned upside down so that the ridged head hits the G-spot, which is located on the front wall of the vagina.

The First Mate is silicone so it's easy to sanitize. It can be washed with soap and water between solo uses. For use with someone else, it can be sanitized boiling it in water for 4-7 minutes. It can be used after boiling, once it's cooled down a bit but still warm, for added warmth and sensation.

My one tiny complaint - really, not a big one - is that the base of the dildo is not more substantial. While I've never had a problem with is slipping out of a harness, the base is somewhat flimsy compared to the rest of the dildo. I wish dildo had a suction base. The edges of the base have torn/frayed a tiny bit, but it has in no way impacted the toy which is quite durable. The First Mate is too large and uncurved to pack with (wear under clothing) but it's perfect for strap-on sex.