To begin with a positive note, I did find the SpareParts Joque Harness very comfortable to wear. In fact, I loved the way it felt when I put it on better than most of the harnesses I have worn for strap-on play. The Velcro adjustable straps around the hips made it easy to slip into and adjust for a snug, soft fit. And the size I chose, large, was perfect for me since I have some soft snuggly curves of my own. The large Joque Harness was a delight to wear, and I can honestly say I was only so very disappointed because of how limited I was in the size I had to choose for my spare parts.

It cost me a considerable amount of money to purchase the harness and then have it delivered. I chose the more expensive delivery method because I was so anxious to get my hands on this item, and my body inside it. So when I put it on and was ready to slide my dildo into it, imagine my horror when I realized how stiff the ring is for the dildo. It took me a tremendous effort and a couple of extra hands (yes, my sub had to help me put my dick on) just to get an average sized dildo into the ring. I believe the advertisement says it will hold up to a 2" diameter. Well, you better believe it is a stretch to get that 2" into it. The cloth around the ring is a bit sticky as well, so we had to pry the ring open with two hands, then slide a lubed dildo through the hole.

Just to clarify, we tried several of my dildos of various design: some with the suction cup base, some with the flared base, and some with a "balls" base. The ones that worked best with the SpareParts Joque Harness are less than 2" in diameter, with a flared base. The smoother the dildo the better, and lube helps get past the sticky tight O-ring.

I still love the way this harness feels around my body. I enjoy the soft material, the easily adjustable Velcro straps, the snug, secure fit, and the durable construction, and I believe SpareParts Joque Harness has tremendous potential. With its sturdy support system and solid construction, I believe the harness could be modified by the manufacturer to wield more ominous sized cocks. Being a woman who abhors limitations, I found it very frustrating to only be able to wear small to average sized cocks with this harness, but I do hope the manufacturer will consider that and maybe make a newer model for sizable spare parts instead of just small spare parts.

I used the SpareParts Joque Harness for a little traveler surprise a few weeks ago. It was about the third time I had the opportunity to use the harness, and I had enough experience with it that I knew the limitations, so I was prepared— I brought a separate harness for my larger dildos, and I just planned to use this one for the warm up.

My sub was out of town for work, staying in a little motel on the coast. His room on the bottom floor with an outside door made it easy for me to surprise him. I packed up all my spare parts and drove all day to surprise him. Of course, I made a few stops for fuel and to stretch my legs, so I sent him little texts during my stops to tell him what nasty things I would do to him if only I could be there with him.

By the time I arrived, he was in a bit of a lather, desperately in need of a hard ride. Luckily, I had already stuffed the SpareParts Harness with one of my average sized dildos, so it would be ready to slip on quickly when I walked through the door.

When I knocked on the door and he opened it, his eyes showed me how happy and relieved he was to see me, and after a passionate kiss and embrace, I had him bent over the bed with his bottom spread wide and waiting for me. After slipping quickly into the spare parts, I warmed him up hard and fast. Stroking my average sized dildo in and out of him deep and hard and fast. Of course, that was just the foreplay, so unfortunately, I had to slip out of my SpareParts Harness and into a less comfortable one, to put on my bigger dildo. (You can imagine how the pause tends to cool things off.) Of course, I had him chewing the sheets again soon enough, stuffing him full with my bigger, fatter cock. The uncomfortable straps on this other harness kept pinching my hip, and the straps aren't as snug, so it slips and twists around while I am driving my dick home, but I made it work as well as could be expected, and gave him the traveler surprise I had planned.

All in all, it was a hot evening and a successful trip, but I kept thinking how much better it would have been if the SpareParts Harness were more versatile.