I purchased this to use with my monogamous partner. This harness is better than some but has some drawbacks. The dildo that this set comes with is pretty much useless, unless your partner is just starting out or just enjoys being penetrated by peculiar looking purple pencils. We looked at the dildo, laughed, and set it aside.

First, the positive aspects of this item. It's made of a smooth nylon webbing, so it's definitely vegan friendly. I know that's an issue for a lot of people. Many harnesses are leather and while those are comfortable and tend to be better made, it's a hot button issue for some. I like the adjustable nature of the thigh straps and waistband. I'm a bigger guy so it's always irritating when leather harness straps dig into the pudge. The straps themselves are pretty comfortable, but like anything, can get a little uncomfortable after a while. This harness is very versatile; it keeps the dong held pretty tightly against the wearer's body and doesn't move around too terribly much. The o-ring that it comes equipped with is rubber, which means it can stretch to accommodate some larger dildos. That being said, this option is also a drawback.

My main issue with this harness was the o-ring itself as well as the cushioning behind it. The o-ring, because it's rubber, tended to slip off the back of the dildo I used. One fix for this might be, if you're handy with a needle and thread, to remove the rubber ring and replace it with a steel one that fits whatever size dildo you intend to use. The other issue I had was with the bit of fabric that acts as a buffer between the dong and your skin. Apart from the fact that it's difficult to get off while using this on a partner, the fabric bunches up and moves because it is not secured to the straps. It moves freely, presumably to allow the harness to be one size fits all.

Back to the positives! It's very easy to clean. I'm sure you can just throw it in the wash on cold and let it air dry or throw it in the dryer on low. Personally, I hand washed it and let it air dry and it was fine, if a little musty. It's fairly low profile. Unlike most of the leather harnesses, people can't really see that you've got something on under a pair of pants. For the price, you can't beat it. If you're just starting out, this is a great harness to practice with and get used to the feeling of wearing a dildo.

I'm looking to replace this strap-on as soon as possible. It's begun to chafe uncomfortably, and the material covering the genitals has proven to be difficult to clean.