My girlfriend and I love this kit. I honestly feel that it's the perfect kit for beginners to get into strap-on play. It comes with two, as my girlfriend described them upon opening the box, "beautiful" dildos, which are truly are quite nice looking. I was expecting them to be a plain flat purple but they have a pearly look to them with swirls of different shades of purple; they're very nice to just look at.

The sizes are great!

The smaller one is perfect for beginners and doesn't require a much of a warm up to really get going. The slight curve of it is fantastic and hits the prostate like you wouldn't believe. It is a bit short for some positions and because it's a bit thinner, when using longer thrusts it does tend to bend a bit so it's best used in positions where you can keep it deeper.

On to the larger one. This is where the intermediate part comes in. The dildo itself is a great size and once it's in; the bulbed shape of the head does wonders while the slightly thinner shaft portion keeps things comfortable. My one issue with it is also one of its strengths: the bulb-like head. It's a bit harder to get in because of the shape, it's a bit too blunt. I would prefer it was a little more tapered at the tip for easier insertion. But, overall it's a great toy and my girl says it's great for hitting her g-spot too. So for you people not using this in the butt, take note.

The harness itself seems pretty well made, it's a fairly basic 2-strap style with nylon straps (think the adjustable part of backpack straps). It has a removable front portion with a purple velvety pad with a little pocket for the vibrating bullet (see below for more about the bullet). The straps are quite long and can be adjusted for pretty much any body size/shape. My girl has a thick, sexy booty and thighs and she has a lot of strap to spare. The harness stays on well and doesn't slip down; while the straps are a bit stiff, they're soft enough to stay comfortable. It's pretty well made and feels like it will last for a while.

The bullet/bullet pocket kind of sucks, it's cheap and loud and pretty much the only sensation anyone gets out of it is some pain on the wearer's pelvis and clit region. We tried it out the first time and only used it for about 30 seconds; I couldn't feel any vibration and she said it was hurting. If vibration is a selling point for you, I would advise another option. A vibrating cock ring on the dildo behind the o-ring could work, I assume; you could try a cheap experiment with one of those disposable cock ring/condom combo packs. But, the actual bullet it comes with, and the placement of the pocket are not so good.

My love and I are very happy with this thing. We have both shared fantasies of strap-on play even long before we met and this was our first sex toy purchase as a couple. We love the excitement of switching roles and it turns her on to be thrusting inside me. She loves how hard I get when I'm riding her. Next stop: no-hands prostate orgasm!