ASLAN's Minx harness is truly a must-have for those who enjoy using strap-ons (especially large/realistic ones) for any reason, but because of the porous nature of leather, it's best when only used with a partner you have no issue sharing fluids with. Also, due to the cost, beginners might not want to spend this much on a first harness (but, if you're sure this is something you'll use quite often, it's well worth it).

This harness is made of soft leather that molds around the wearer for a snug, but flexible fit. The leather isn't thick, but it is still quite obviously durable. However, it is probably not thin enough to fit under someone's clothing.

As I mentioned before, leather is porous, so because of that, this harness isn't waterproof and will also lose that lovely scent of leather as it picks up your scent.

This is where the Minx harness absolutely shines. ASLAN knows quality, which is why this is one of the more expensive harnesses you are going to see, but it is well worth it. The leather is fantastic, but considering the secure stitching and rivets, the harness is also built to last as long as you take care of it. Plus, the corset closing on the back makes an already attractive harness even more appealing to look at.

Every strap on this harness is adjustable for an amazing fit (more on that below). While the O-ring is easy to change out, this harness is unfortunately not well suited for an O-ring smaller than 1 1/2" (which is a circumference of about 5"). Obviously, there are a great number of people who aren't interested in playing with toys that size, but I even had an issue keeping the largest dildo I own (6" circumference) in the 2" O-ring that came with the harness. That being said, I would imagine that the more realistic dildos/prosthetics would work better with this harness than strap-ons without fake testes.

This harness is fully adjustable, fitting up to 60" in the hips. For me as a very tall person, a huge benefit was being able to adjust the straps between my thighs. So, not only can it adjust for width, but also height. However, I have heard that those with smaller frames (less than 28" hips) have a harder time getting the harness to fit as snuggly as they would like. That, and they have to deal with much more extra material hanging around them once it is adjusted. With my 32" hips, I didn't encounter this issue, so I can only relay what I have heard.

I had an amazing amount of control while wearing this harness (in any position). The soft leather allows for a snug fit, which while allowing control, also means the harness is comfortable to wear since it's not moving around much. The buckles on the hip straps allow you to remove the harness easily, without worrying about having to adjust the whole thing the next time you wear it.

The only issues I had were the previously mentioned issue with the O-ring and I also found that I needed the driver pad (found on ASLAN's site: Sex Toys Shop ) for the dildo I used to be comfortable. Without the driver pad, the base of the dildo irritated me a bit much when used aggressively.

This harness is leather, so the best way to clean it is with a damp soapy cloth or an actual leather cleaner (a leather cleaner will do a better job of keeping the leather dry and also removing scents). As far as storage goes, the most important thing is to make sure the harness is dry before you hang it in your closet or tuck it away in a box under the bed.

It took me a little bit, but now that I have the straps and corset strings adjusted, the right O-ring, and added the driver pad, this harness is absolutely perfect.