Finally, a product that's made with the full sized female in mind! Sedeux Divine Diva Plus Size Harness is a harness that works great for those of us who are on the larger side of the scale. It's light weight, stays in place well, and is very simple to use!

This harness is geared toward females (and those lacking a penis) and can be used for gender play, strap-on sex, and pegging. It doesn't matter what gender you identify with, nor does it matter what gender your partner is, this harness works well, no matter your sexuality!

Along with this harness, are three different sized o-rings which make it even more versatile! Whether you're needing a slimmer dildo for anal play, or are looking for a more girthy toy to use on your partner, the three o-rings should have you mostly covered!

This harness is a decent size, but can easily be folded up and tucked into a smaller bag if you're planning on traveling with it. It's not the most travel friendly option, but could work depending on how you're traveling and how discreet you need to be.

This harness is made from a few different materials but primarily is made from Nylon. Nylon is a very strong, hypo-allergenic material that holds up well over time. It's flexible without losing its shape, and while it's not soft to the touch, doesn't feel rough either. The fact that the material isn't scratchy is a huge plus since the areas the harness rubs against are very sensitive. The area that rests over your pubic area and your lower back are both made from Nylon fabric combined with polyurethane foam, giving you a little cushion in the areas that matter most.

The hardware is made from both ABS plastic, and nickel free metal (on the snap closures for the o-ring) which both rate very high on Eden's material safety scale. Even those with a sensitivity to certain metals shouldn't have an issue with the snaps on this harness. No part of the metal rubs against you or your partner's skin during use.

The o-rings are made from Nitrile which is a type of rubber. The o-rings are safe to use with dildos of any material type without worrying about how compatible the materials are. They are easily bent, but bounce right back in to shape and feel as though they will last for a very long time.

Upon opening the box, there was no obvious scent which is surprising, especially with the o-rings. It has a nice, very faint new smell to it, but nothing beyond that.

Unlike a lot of the harnesses available on Eden Fantasys, no part of this harness contains any leather, which also makes it a great vegan friendly option.

This harness looks sexy without being obviously geared toward one gender. I wouldn't call it feminine or masculine; it seems to be a great look for either!

The way that this harness adjusts is awesome. It functions very smoothly and doesn't become loose while in use. When first putting it on, it's smart to leave it a little loose and tighten it once it's on. It's very simple to do, especially with how smoothly the straps slide through the ladder locks while tightening. All you have to do is pull on the straps to tighten to your desired fit and you're good to go. There are four total straps that can be adjusted. Two that go between your legs (but are adjusted by each hip, near the back), and two that meet in the center of your back. The ladder locks at the center of the back are much larger than the ones that are used to adjust the straps that go between the legs. That's because the straps that go around your waist are meant to support the weight of a dildo, whereas the smaller ones just help keep the harness in place.




When it comes time to remove the harness, you'll want to push the straps toward the ladder locks, making it so that the areas widen and the harness easily slips off.

In general, this harness seems well made. There are some areas that look as though it could have been sewn on a little bit better, the quality fits into the upper-middle range. It's most obvious where the hardware is sewn to the waist strap.


Because of the way the snap closures work, it makes switching between dildo sizes very simple! There are three total snaps that keep the o-ring in place; one in the center, and two on either side. If you need to change the ring size, you simply unsnap the three pieces, remove the ring and replace it with the size needed. It's great that this harness comes with more than one ring because it truly helps it to be an 'all-in-one" type of harness.





The biggest issue with this harness is a major design flaw. Rather than having a little area to slip the excess straps through, there's nothing; leaving long (depending on your size), dangling straps at your sides and back, which is a total distraction. It would have been simple and appreciated had they included belt loop type areas for the excess strap to slip into rather than left to dangle. This is fixable, but alterations shouldn't need to be made for an item like this. If the straps are too long and are bothering you, you can cut them back, but make sure that you still leave enough there so that it doesn't easily slip off. Once you've cut the nylon straps, you can singe the ends to prevent them from fraying. Using a lighter or a lit candle would work fine for that. If the straps are longer than you'd like and you don't feel comfortable cutting them, you might find sewing small fabric 'belt loops' to the harness will help hold the straps in place. If that isn't something you can do or are comfortable with, perhaps using a safety pin would suffice for the time being.

Though this is a 'plus sized' harness, it fits a wide range of sizes, from a 28" all the way up to am 82" waist! I measured around my waist and where this harness comfortably rests, my measurement was 49". While I could have easily gotten a smaller harness, I was concerned about whether or not the size would run small, since often times that's the case with plus sized items. This harness is more than large enough for me, but will also work with my body as I lose weight, which is a huge plus!

The harness is very comfortable to wear, whether or not you have something on underneath it. Because of where it rests on the body, there's also access to your most sensitive areas, making it easy to be receiving pleasure while giving it!

The o-rings come in three sizes; 1.5", 1.75", and 2". Most of the strap-on dildos available at Eden will fit well with those sizes. The harness has a good amount of space to house a dildo will balls attached, but some might be too large to work well with it. Similarly, dildos that have a vibrating bullet might accidentally get turned off while in use.


The waist straps are 1 1/2" wide and the straps that go between your legs are considerably smaller, being only a 1/2" wide. The padding at your back is 10 1/2" long and 5" tall at the center point. It fits very comfortable in the small of your back and really helps to make the harness feel like it's sturdy on your body.



The front where the o-ring set up is, is 8" long, and 5 1/4" at the center point. Where the o-ring is placed makes it look very realistic to where an actual penis would sit, making the experience feel that much more believable.

While this could be worn under clothing, I think it would be very obvious to others, due to the padding, the hardware, and the excess strap length. I would suggest getting something more a RodeoH harness if you waist is 41" or smaller, or the Sasha harness which goes up to a size 3X.

This harness fits like a dream! It stays in place very well and there's no concern about it slipping while wearing or in use. With how easily the straps are to adjust, should you feel that it needs to be a little tighter, it takes literally seconds to get the fit you're looking for!

Putting toys into the harness is fairly simple. While pulling the ring forward, slip the toy into the ring attached to the harness. If you find this to be difficult for whatever reason, try unsnapping one or two, put the toy inside the ring, and then secure the others. It might take a moment to get your dildo in place and comfortable, so putting it into the harness before you're about to play with your partner is a much smarter choice.

While getting the toy inside the harness might prove to be slightly challenging, having it remain in place is not! As long as you're using the appropriate o-ring for the size dildo you're using, you shouldn't experience any problems with it slipping or feeling out of place.

Though there's no care instruction tag on the harness itself, on the box it does say that the toy is machine washable. After removing the o-ring, secure the snaps and tighten the harness as much as possible before tossing in the wash. While using the normal cycle probably won't do any harm, the delicate cycle might be a smarter choice. Again, not having care instructions, hanging it to dry seems more logical than using the dryer.

The o-rings can be washed with warm water and anti bacterial soap or your favorite toy cleaner, and should always be fully dry before storing. Because of the material of both the harness and o-rings, I would suggest using a water based lubricant with whatever toy you're using. Though nylon offers resistance to oils, it's not worth the risk of staining your harness.

Once dried, the harness easily folds up and can be returned to the original box or to an alternate choice for storage. It would work fine in a gallon size bag, a small garment bag, or can be put in your dresser drawer as long as discretion isn't an issue. Placing the o-rings in a sandwich bag will help keep them from getting lost, but isn't required due to material safety.

Always check your item to see if it needs to be washed after use, and always wash the harness after anal play to prevent any kind of bacterial issues. It's important to also always wash the harness if you're using with various partners.

Nothing about the box it comes in is discreet. The front of the cardboard box (and one side) displays a topless woman wearing the harness. She's covering her nipples with her hands, but it leaves little to the imagination. While it's tasteful in a sense, this could easily be described as nudity. Also on the front, it proudly displays the company name and boasts of a limited lifetime warranty, gives you a little run down of the features, and very obviously states that it's a plus sized strap-on.



The opposite side has information about the product in eight languages separate from English.


On the back you'll find more images of the harness displayed on a mannequin, which also shows you the simple steps you need to take when using the product. The side says a little bit about additional features of the toy including the soft material, how it's designed to fit with a woman's curves, the padded back support, how it accommodates any dildo with a flared base, and the measurements.


The majority of the box is covered in pink, which makes it even more obvious that it's geared toward females. The cardboard box can be used as storage since it doesn't take up much more room than the actual harness, but it makes the product less discreet considering what the box displays on it. Should you decide to store it another way, the box can easily be broken down and recycled.

When opened, the top has a small amount of tissue paper and the harness is simply folded up inside the box. The o-rings are loose, so be careful with that.

I really like the look and feel of this harness, but I'm highly disappointed by the excess strap length. While I appreciate the fact that this can fit a much larger woman, it would have been nice if Sportsheets had come up with a better way of securing the straps to the whole harness instead of just having them dangle by your side. It's annoying and easily becomes and distraction during your play time.

To show how LONG the straps can be, I have this image that shows me wearing it over my husband's boxers. The straps go down past my knees, which seems a little much considering I'm not a small lady. Someone who's smaller than I am would have an even greater issue with the strap length.