Being the female half of a swinger couple almost guarantees hot girl/girl action|Girl on girl sex fantasies. I realized that I was missing one very important item for lesbian lovemaking: a harness. So I volunteered to lend my opinion to the Vibrating Velvet Harness|Vibrating velvet harness - Double strap harness by Sportsheets.

First of all, not all harnesses are created equal. There are so many types out there; a strap on novice like me could drown. Thankfully, this particular unit is newbie friendly. Very easy to put on and take off and very roomy, perfect for voluptuous women. It came with three different size rings and a plastic vibrating bullet. The codpiece feels like foam core and is covered in a velvety material. There is a little inner pocket that you can insert the bullet into, positioned very close to the wearer's clitoris.

Beware, the bullet is one speed and very loud. However, I could see an inventive user tossing the included bullet and using a more adequate buzzer in its place.

So, I am standing there, harness on, Tantus dildo|Sire dildo - Strap-on dildo by Tantus in place, and I finally know what it feels like to have a dick. Now just to find someone to use it on; easier done than I thought. There is no shortage of women looking for a nice long screw.

The harness itself is very user friendly and simple to operate. The straps can be loosened and tightened with one hand and do not lose their tightness when agitated. The particular dildo I used had a moderately flared base, and I was impressed with how secure the dong was. The base sat firmly against my pubic bone and did not become dislodged. I was able to maneuver with this harness, hands free.

The only gripe I have is that the nylon straps can become a little uncomfortable over an extended period of time.

I had such a great time with this harness; it has earned a place of honor in my toy box. I would recommend this unit to any novice player and even to seasoned pros. It was a terrific addition to playtime, and I cannot wait to wear my dick again.