After searching for over a month, my boyfriend and I finally found this delightful kit. We looked over a few, taking a day or two to consider carefully. We finally decided on trying this kit out, figuring that for the price, what could it hurt? We had enough money after to purchase a second toy, plus the added satisfaction that we actually really like this harness kit.

The harness is made of nylon, with a velvety felt material where the toy is held. There are plastic buckles to adjust the straps, which hold the straps securely, and are very easy to work with. There is a strap that goes around your waist, with two buckles to adjust the length of the strap with. Then there are two straps, one for each of your legs. You slide them up around your thighs, below your buttocks. Each of these straps has one buckle with which you can adjust the straps. The harness can fit a hip size of 60". I wear a women's size 12-14 jean, and this fit very comfortably, without digging into my hips or legs. The harness didn't slide around or slip, staying in place through vigorous thrusting and movement.

The O-ring that holds the toy is made of nitrile rubber, able to stretch and hold other toys with a base size of 1 1/2". The ring held the toy we used perfectly, it didn't slide out of the ring and I had complete control over the toy during use. If you are wondering about sharing, or even feel worried over getting this harness wet with your love juices, never fear! You can toss this harness into the washing machine for a thorough washing after use. I would recommend having it in a pillow case so that the straps don't get tangled, and then drying on low heat or by hanging it up to dry (due to the straps being nylon, this won't shrink). Be careful of using any special detergents or softeners with this, as the velvety felt material will be rubbed against your pelvic area and can have a skin reaction for anyone with sensitive skin. I have sensitive skin, but I didn't have an kind of reaction on my skin after use. The harness doesn't chafe, but I did experience slight pinching of my vaginal lips when walking around (without underwear on) during wear.

The dildo that this kit came with is made of silicone, which is one of the safest toy materials out there, non-porous and easily cleanable. The dildo didn't smell, nor did it have a taste. It is a slightly shimmery purple, and very flexible and smooth. When I took the toy out to examine it, I noticed that the silicone had slight fluff. However, unlike rubber toys, I found that it was extremely easy to clean, using warm water and soap for the initial cleaning, and then using a toy wipe whenever I saw blanket fluff gathering on the top. You can boil this for a couple of minutes, or put it in the top rack of the dishwasher to disinfect. The toy was cute, and the first impression that came to my mind when I first opened the kit was that the dildo reminded me of a long, fat finger. The length seems like it would be very good for a beginner, which is why it was placed inside this kit, I'm sure. The length is 5" with an insertable length of 4 1/2". The reason I found this dildo cute is due to the slimness of the toy, a mere 2 1/2" circumference. This dildo would definitely not be up for anyone who is a size whore. However I find the size, in total, to be very well thought out for a beginner, because this dildo will not be intimidating, and will wet your appetite for more. You can use a water based lubricant with this toy, I used probe. This toy doesn't have much shape, having a slight bend but overall smooth and one dimensional. If you are seeking something realistic, you may consider purchasing another toy along with this kit, because you will not find that with this toy.

This kit came in a box, which is where I am storing it at the moment. The box is rather faulty though, it keeps opening when I pick it up, and everything falls out, so you may need to find a more secure place to stash this kit. Somewhere clean, dry, and out of reach of pets would be recommended; a drawer, a toy chest, a toy bag that is hung up in the closet are all good places. You can use this kit in the bedroom, and even in the shower.

Truthfully, I was eye-balling the Seudex Divine Diva Harness, and lusting for the Sedeux Leather Couture Harness, but I was on a sixty dollar budget and trying to find a good kit. Well, when the sale came along, I scoured the site for something that looked comfortable, came with a dildo, and left some money left over to get a second strap-on dildo. This was the harness kit I decided to take a chance on, and all I can say is that I am very glad I took the risk. The dildo isn't exactly what I wanted, but this harness is worth every penny spent.

I am not exactly delicate in frame, I have wide hips and chunky thighs, and I was worried that due to this fact, this harness straps would cut me, and that this would be tight and uncomfortable. Well, I had nothing to worry about. There was plenty of room for me, and it fit securely without digging or cutting into my skin. Truthfully, my jeans dig into me, and leave deep painful marks, which is what I was expecting. But that did not happen, even after all of my vigorous thrusting and moving. I am very glad to have this addition to my toy bag, and I expect a lot of use from this harness kit in the future!

I still love this harness. My partner and I pulled it out for V-day, and it was spectacular. We used the Perk as well as the Happy Valley Realistic, which both fit in the O-ring like a glove. We used this in the shower, we washed it (inside a pillow case the way we do rope), and it held up wonderfully. I'm not sure why we don't use this more often, but that will have to change!