As a recently single man who really enjoys pegging I found myself faced with quite a challenge. I have a variety of dildos that I really enjoy using, and suddenly no partner and no harness to connect them to. I know I could buy a suction cup and stick them to a hard surface, but it’s not quite the same.

I had an idea. This idea involved a pillow, a dildo, and a harness. As my favorite color is blue, the Bionic harness was my first pick. This harness also looks easy to care for as it’s made of Vinyl. Simply wash with warm water and soap. That means this could also be used in a shower or a pool, if you so desired. It’s also vegetarian friendly, another plus for me. Vinyl is somewhat porous, so you should not be sharing this harness.

The harness itself is attractive, deep blue with glitter throughout. It looks much nicer in real life. The O-ring is connected by two snaps- I would have preferred three like in the Jaguar harness as the dildo didn’t seem to be as steady with the two point connection. Another annoyance with the harness is that the snaps go under (rather than going over the o-ring, then snapping). This makes putting a large dildo on a bit difficult.

With a few pillows stacked to resemble a human like figure, I was ready for some fun. I strapped the harness around the pillows, straddled it, and then quickly assumed a favorite rocking motion of mine. While a pillow is never going to substitute for a person, using them and a harness was much better than a suction cup and a hard surface. I eventually hope to get one of the life size vaginas so I can fuck it and then attach the harness to it and fuck myself.

Now I realize not every person (very few in reality) will have the same use for the harness as I did. Beautiful Dreamer & I are still friends, so she offered to try on the harness for size and fit. She has 41” hips and even though the harness says it fits up to 42”, she still had extra room (another 3-4”). She did note the material didn’t feel as nice as the leather and her skin got a little sticky after awhile. Also, the fact that the back straps can be slid to the side would help with any problems of buckles digging into her back. I hope to have another partner in the future that pegs, but until then, the Bionic harness & I will have quite a bit of fun.