This is a great starter harness and a good way to get your feet wet! It shouldn't intimidate a new user, and can be used in w/m relationships or w/w relationships without any troubles. It won't last forever, but it will help you determine if this is something that you enjoy enough to invest money in.

This was a first foray into pegging for my wife and I. The Ultra Harness 2 seems to have been a great starting choice since it went on easily, fit my wife well and stayed on during all of our activities. I really liked the crotchless design so that all of our options were open for pleasuring each other.

This toy is a lot of fun. Don't give up if you can't figure out how to use a strap-on your first time trying. The harness is great because it works with lots of toys and allows for great control.

I decided that this strap was not for me, since I need to be comfortable for an hours worth of giving enjoyment to my boyfriend.

I am very excited to explore the uses of this further and to do a thorough follow-up review after experiencing all it has to offer. I plan on using this to explore the realm of anal play. I'd like to point out that you want to be sure to also purchase the vac-u-lock powder, and be sure you have appropriate lube. We used a water-based lube designed for anal play.