This is the first thigh harness I have ever used. It works great for non-traditional strap-on sex. The harness is made of durable neoprene, which has yet to show any signs of wear or tear. It also has an opening to fit up to a 1 5/8" dildo. The velcro is very strong and holds the harness securely in place. It works well for couple's play, as well as solo play on a pillow. When strapped to a pillow, the harness stays in place and does not slide around at all. The material is not irritating to the body, so it can be used for extended periods of time comfortably. The only downside to the toy I found was that, being a larger girl, it did not fit as well on my leg as it did my partner's leg. The harness cut into my leg but I was not so uncomfortable that I could not wear it.

I enjoyed using it by myself, as well as with my partner. When using it solo, strapping the harness to a pillow was the most effective means of securing it. The harness will securely hold the dildo, so the dildo can be used as hard and fast as you can go. Using the harness with a partner is a little different. With a partner, positioning can be slightly difficult. The best position I have found for using the harness has been with one partner sitting on the edge of the bed, couch, et cetera and the other individual riding the dildo while standing/sitting on the partner's thigh.

The neoprene is very easy to use and clean. I have actually put mine in the washing machine once, and it didn't tear at all. However, I would not recommend putting it in the washing machine regularly, only if extremely soiled. Most times cleaning with water and a washcloth will remove all residues including water-based lube and lady juices.