This harness is the one my wife and I use for play and we found it to be refreshingly simple to use and sturdy. It is not very complicated and it is adjustable to a variety of sizes and seems to hug tight once you have it locked in and ready to go.

To give an example, my wife's waist is approximately 29 inches and I have read a lot of reviews asking if it fits that low - and it does just perfectly. The straps and belts can be adjusted quite easily. They hug tight around the hips and butt to create a comfortable fit around my wife's body. I have to admit it also makes her ass look beautiful but that's just an added bonus!

This harness can work for beginners and advanced users alike due to the ability to use whichever toy you wish to place in it. Some beginner kits come with fairly cheap or unsafe toys so I suggest spending a little extra and just skipping out on the toys included packages.

The harness is durable and very sturdy. The straps are thick and adjustable yet not uncomfortable against the hips and thighs where it pulls in. They are nylon and a few people have stated they work just like the ones on a book bag you had as a kid. My wife finds they are very easy to slide and adjust while still keeping the harness snug and secure.

The velvety feel of the corset area is very soft to the touch though it probably won't be noticed too much. It's mostly for looks and design aesthetics. The softness is like crushed velvet and it's suggested that you spot clean it and work the suede over with a brush to retain the feel of the fabric. We haven't really had to clean it that much as we are usually pretty careful about the entire process but a good once over is given now and then. She doesn't want her pretty harness smudged or ruined after all!

I would definitely not suggest this toy as being waterproof for the previous reason. While nylon is fairly durable in the water (I attribute this knowledge to dropping a book bag during a camping trip into a river) the velvet is not very water friendly. I would also worry about the buttons tarnishing as I doubt they are treated for underwater excursions. A shame, I suppose, as it would make for some fun pool time play!

This harness is very sturdy as I have explained and we were happy to find it is well made. It is sewn together very well and looks like it will find a lot of use and not need to be replaced so easily over time. After multiple wearings it looks brand new still and hasn't needed much maintenance in regards to cleaning or repairs.

The straps are nylon and very adjustable to the point you can slip in and out very easily with little effort. The harness is adjustable to as low as 28 inches and probably more as my wife experimented with it and she was able to zip it fully up to a tiny size. It's safe to say this is a "one size fits most" harness and unlike a lot of other harnesses, that says something.

I have read a few reviewers got chafing from the harness but my wife hasn't experienced this at all. She suggests not tightening it too much and just letting it relax comfortably on the thighs and hips for maximum comfort. The harness will keep the toy secure with the multiple snaps!

This harness utilizes 3 O-rings of various sizes. One is small, the other a bit towards a medium size and the biggest ring can take quite a toy in it. It actually frightens me a little to think of something that big! We have had no problems with our three toys we have purchased and their compatibility with the harness.

My wife mentions the only time consuming part of this toy is the 4 buttons you have to snap to lock the ring in place with the toy but she can't argue that it keeps the toy firm and rigid against the crotch.

The harness is a good size that is easily adjustable after some working with it. It has a lot of draws and clasps that can be adjusted for women with larger waists or bigger thighs or hip areas.

I feel this harness can fit women of practically any size if you adjust it correctly. We actually purchased this toy from a retailer who demonstrated it for us and she stated that it can fit quite a range of body types and waist sizes without much trouble. This was one of the draws for my wife as she didn't want to purchase something that wasn't adjustable or a set size as it can be uncomfortable if you have any weight gain or loss issues.

She says the harness fits well and is very comfortable and snug. If she has any issues with it being tight or pinching she just adjusts it until there is no concern.

The harness works perfectly for my wife and I and she absolutely loves how it makes her look and feel. She was so happy it came in purple (her favorite color!) to match a lot of our toys we use.

She found the harness easy to adjust around her thighs and hips with the many straps that are connected to each strip of nylon. She steps into it and has it ready to go in seconds with the practice she has had. Taking it off is just as easy and all she has to do is adjust the harness to a larger size and just step out of it after each session. She was happy at how quick and easy it was to adjust, get in and get out.

She says it is a little tougher than she'd like for securing a toy but it's the small price you have to pay to keep it from moving too much. She suggests buttoning in the toy in a diagonal manner (i.e. starting at the top left, then the bottom right and so forth) as that gives the quickest buttoning method with how the harness is set up. The snaps are VERY secure and take a bit more pressure than the typical buttons on pants.

The harness does hold the toys well through a variety of positions we have experimented with. The toy sits well on the crotch and the four snaps and ring keep the toy erect and sturdy with just enough play to allow it to be flexible enough.

Maintenance has been light for the harness as we have not really spilled anything on it or gotten it dirty. My wife keeps very good care of it and is careful with spilling anything on it.

She doesn't suggest tossing it in the washing machine if you do get anything on it because an agitator can, well, agitate and probably wreck havoc on the exposed buckles and buttons.

The care guide suggests spot cleaning which she agrees on but be careful not to ruin the velvet as it is a rather touchy fabric.

We store it in the plastic bag it came in with the toys in our chest of goodies. She usually draws the harness to the smallest size and folds it up nicely to keep it from taking up too much space.

The harness was packaged in a box that is far from discreet unless you consider a woman wearing the toy to be fairly indiscreet. While we don't really worry about it being exposed or sitting out on the shelf somewhere it isn't something you will probably want to keep sitting about.

There were no instructions with the toy though she found it was fairly self-explanatory if you give it a good look over once.

I have to admit I am a man who loves a nice ass more than the rest of the body and if you are a woman who appreciates the gifts she was given and loves to show them off then this harness will greatly enhance that. It really snugs up at the waist and thighs and really accentuates the backside of a woman. The box doesn't give much of a good example but that lady probably doesn't have too much of a butt yet the harness really pronounces it.

Just a little tangent I felt I would need to explain. I can attest to the enhancement this harness has on the female posterior!

We also have not really used the vibrating bullet as ours either didn't have that option or she wasn't sure what to do with it. She doesn't seem to need it either as she can often drive herself to orgasm just from the experience alone!

My wife and I were extremely excited when we first got this harness years ago and I can still remember our first time experimenting with pegging as if it were yesterday. We were like two giddy teenagers trading kisses on the playground after school when we came home with the harness and a good beginner toy. She could hardly contain how excited she was as she literally burst into the bedroom and looked over her newly purchased harness.

"I can't wait to try it on!" I recall her saying as she quickly stripped down nude and tore the packaging off like a child at Christmas time. Only she was naked, which may not be how everyone opens presents at Christmas.

She quickly hopped into the harness and smiled happily as she got it snug and secure within seconds and decided to model it for me to get me in the mood. She wiggled about and strutted her stuff like a goddess and she loved how empowering it felt to have me pretty much begging for it.

We had purchased a good beginners toy that was purple to match though (I am trying to find it but I believe it is the Silk Small on here) and she excitedly tore it from its packaging as well and began to slip it into the o-ring that was supplied.

She did take awhile with this and felt a bit bad at how long it took and hoped I was still rearing to go (no pun intended) and I think from the excited bulge in my pants she knew I hadn't cooled down a bit!

Our first time together was slow and deliberate and a learning experience for us both. We found that our size difference (I am a good foot taller than my wife) made for a bit of a struggle at first but we eventually found our rhythm and were soon sharing a moment we'd find would encompass our love life for years to come!

The harness kept her nice and secure and we never had any issues with it during our first time nor have we had any during our repeated uses with the buttons unsnapping or the straps getting unadjusted. She absolutely loves her harness and how it makes her feel and look. Every time I'm in the mood for getting pegged it doesn't take her long to eagerly prance to the toy box and have herself ready to go in seconds.