My wife and I bought this pair (they were finally in stock!) after a year of playing with the Sophia red rider set. We decided it was time for an upgrade, and had seen these a few times, but they were always out of stock. After waiting, and considering buying other harnesses, our patience paid off.

Let me tell you, I now know why they are always out of stock, because they're great. My wife loves how comfortable they are (especially compared to regular strap harnesses) and the fact that she can wear them all day as a surprise. She actually enjoys wearing this harness, unlike our last one, which she did not enjoy and wound up having to keep panties on under. I like the fact that they are easy to keep clean, and LOVE the fact that she enjoys wearing them, meaning she will play with them more. And when the mood strikes, there are no complicated straps to mess around with in the dark, just slip them on and slip it in. Before our marriage neither of us had ever tried harnesses, our ever really even put much thought into them, after experimenting a little, it is now a great experience. It would have made the first time trying it much less awkward if we had this harness, and not a complicated strap one, which she was embarrassed and uncomfortable in at first.

We bought these in conjunction with the vamp dildo, which I will review separately, but ended up switching back to the red dildo from our previous set. This harness held both with little to no wiggle room, fitting them quite snugly. This harness is a great buy for anybody that is into wearing and using harnesses and dildos, and it feels very well made. The material is very soft, and does not rub like many of the strap harnesses do. It also feels like it will hold up for a long time, especially if is properly cared for. I wish we would have skipped the others and gone straight to this harness, because my guess is that this will be the last one we ever need to buy.

I love that this harness can be worn all day and be a surprise when you're not expecting it, like when my wife wore it when we traveled for business. We undressed in the hotel room, and when I saw she was wearing the harness it got my mind racing and the blood flowing to the right spots after a long day of traveling.

My wife and I still like these, though we have run into a few issues with it holding the toy "erect". They are much more comfortable for her to wear than the cheap nylon strap harnesses, so until we buy a more expensive one, these will remain in our collection. They don't get used as much as they used to (unfortunately), but that isn't their fault.