If you are a guy who has failed to convince your gal to mount up and ride you - the RodeoH panty harness may be your solution - it certainly has been for me! I wholeheartedly give the RodeoH Panty Harness an unabashed 5-star rating! Is the RodeoH perfect? Of course not - but it's more than good enough for a wide variety of users.

charletnarough and HannaPanda have done a great job of describing the RodeoH panty harness for the lesbian community. I owe them a great thank you for giving me the information and confidence to give the RodeoH a chance. There are also several nice reviews from heterosexual couples that you can consult for descriptions, pros and cons, etc.

Therefore, I decided to do something different, this is less a review - and more the description of a journey.

As a married man - it's obvious why this terrific harness found it's way into our bedroom. My wife had become quite adept at penetrative anal play for me including a world class HJ. But after reading so much about pegging on EF - and watching a fair amount of online porn, I was ready to give it a try. Unfortunately my wife was openly hostile to the concept. Like many men on EF, our partners are not keen on role reversal and the implied gay tendencies that pegging can imply.

I was determined to move past the prejudice, but the thought of asking my wife to strap-on a leather harness with a big realistic dildo on the end of it like the Jaguar, Joque or Minx - with one of our great Vixskin toys like Johnny, Maverick or Outlaw - was simply a non-starter.

This lead me to investigate the Feeldoe style of strapless devices - after reading dozens of reviews, our first attempt was the Fun Factory Share. The Share's g-spot shaped section for her, and non-realistic dildo for me, seemed the least threatening - and most likely to succeed. Unfortunately the Share would not stay in for her, and she made it clear that she was not interested in 'role-reversal' - so for the Share it was one and done.

A fair amount of time passed before I had the courage to try again. Interestingly it was the end of another long standing taboo that gave me the courage to try again. After 23+ years of marriage and a fair amount of my wife's new favorite 'social lubricant' Sangria, we engaged in anal sex for the 1st time - then repeated the experience several times over a period of weeks.

Emboldened by the success and my wife's apparent new openness, I resolved to try again. Here's where an EF contributor that I drafted as mentor became invaluable. Amethystsmoke helped me sort out what things might work and why - I owe her a ton of thanks. Her female perspective helped me understand what's going for the woman both mentally and physically.

The last piece of the puzzle was the recent introduction of the strapless panty-style harness. Deciding to go down the feminine road the Tombi and RodeoH boxer and brief styles lost out to the panty style. I would love to have tried the Sasha - but considering the cost and the relatively low possibilities for success - the RodeoH was my choice.

Even after the RodeoH arrived I was not yet sure when or how to reintroduce pegging and the RodeoH - but although never a boy scout, I wanted to be ready. I loaded up the Fun Factory Magnum - a medium sized non-realistic silicone dildo - threw it in the drawer and waited for my opportunity.

I hope this journey and the Experience section below is as informative as repeating all the accurate descriptive information available from other sources! Enjoy!

Less than a week later - taking advantage another favorite 'social lubricant' - margaritas - we went up stairs to have some fun. Emboldened by the margaritas - she pushes me on the bed and asks 'What's your pleasure my dear?' Taking her at her word - I got up, handed her the preloaded RodeoH and jumped back in bed!

The beauty of this is that there is nothing to figure out or adjust - no fumbling. Every girl knows how to put on a pair of panties right! Slipping them on she giggles something about having a black dick and suggests that I'll have to get on my knees. However, I opt to put my hips on our Liberator Wedge - so I don't have to miss out on her great HJ.

She has become quite adept at her two-fingered preparation for other anal play - so that's how she gets me ready, then carefully slips the Magnum in. Pausing as she usually does - then starts thrusting slowly, then more quickly, then starts to hammer away as if she had done this her whole life! Amazing!

After a great ride I finished and she laid back in bed and summoned me. She was really turned on and needed her release. She had actually nearly had an orgasm from pegging me! She commented that had that thing been a vibrator - she would have had an orgasm! Note to self!

For our second go around - I wanted something larger. So taking a tip from Amethystsmoke, I wrapped our Champ (like the Champlette only larger - 2" x 8") in plastic. This allowed the shaft to slide easily through the o-ring - ready for action. Again when the opportunity arose - I handed her the preloaded RodeoH. This time stunned by the size of the Champ - she hesitated, but I pointed out to her that I had inserted the Je Joue Mimi vibrator into the pocket below the dildo for her to enjoy.

Again the whole experience was a great success for both - the taper of the Champ allowed me to take all 8" inside and stretch out to the full 6.3" of girth - and although the Mimi didn't give her an orgasm, it brought her very close and I was happy to help her finish with her favorite G4 Big Boss and Mystic Wand.

So you guys who are struggling to find away - there is a way! Patience, forethought, perseverance, planning - and the right combination of top notch toys!

THANK YOU RODEOH!

We absolutely love the RodeoH - the prospect of harnesses and straps was just too much for my wife. But once we got this more feminine option she was able to get over the fear.

Her favorite thing now is to stick her Mimi vibe in the pocket below the dildo - it helps her enjoy the pegging almost as much as I do.

We've added Vixskin Johnny to dildos that the RodeoH works well with. Because the balls on Johnny were closely held with Mimi - even I could feel Johnny vibrate - just like the Feeldoe line is supposed to work!

More to come - we're going to try to insert one her dildos vaginally as see if it will stay in while she's pegging me - more fun to come!