The Mistress was my first dildo and has remained a staple in my collection for almost a decade. It's a high quality dildo with a slight curve and defined head. The smooth body and 1 1/4" diameter make this dildo ideal for those new to penetration, or for those not looking for a lot of heavy stimulation. The width is about one and a half fingers. It has 6 1/4" insertable length, which is long enough to feel full without hitting uncomfortably. The Mistress is lightweight with a slightly curved body and very sturdy base, making it ideal for use with strap-on harnesses.

This dildo has a strong suction cup base, and can be suctioned to most smooth surfaces without budging. The head is ridged, which provides some light G-spot stimulation. When using the Mistress with a strap-on with my partner bent over, I'll turn the dildo upside down so that the ridged head hits the G-spot.

Lately, I've used the Mistress primarily for masturbation. I like to pair the Mistress with my Hitachi or other vibrators. It's slim and smooth enough to use without a lot of warm-up, and its base is sturdy and wide enough to grip easily. These features also make it perfect for anal play!

The Mistress is silicone, which makes it easy to clean and sanitize. When using it with a partner, I'll use a condom. If it's going to be used on multiple body parts/orifices, I'll change condoms in between to avoid bacteria getting in the wrong place. Since it's a slim dildo, snug fit condoms are least likely to slip off. The Mistress can be sanitized by throwing it in a pot of boiling water for 3-5 minutes. When I'm only using it alone, I'll wash it with soap and hot water between uses.