I can definitely see why this is a strap-on for beginners. When I first pulled it out of the box, I knew I was in for a bit of disappointment. The size isn't intimidating, but in my experience, it wasn't very effective either. I originally bought it for that reason--the fact that it was small because my girlfriend is new to the world of strap-ons, but in this case, I seem to of over-thought the situation because the 2.5" circumference just wasn't enough. It's ultra slim size left a lot more to be desired for her.

The shorter length was another problem. With the dildo only being 5", not only was my depth limited, but my hip movement was restricted. I've never had a problem with other dildos coming out, but I constantly had to stop and start again with this one. And although I found the harness to be extremely comfortable and easy to put on, the straps struggled the stay tight with a lot of strenuous movement. By the time we were finished, the apparatus was falling off of me.

The kit isn't all the way bad. Price wise, you can't get much more inexpensive considering the quality you get with silicone! The fact that the dildo is made of silicone was a major initial selling point to me on the kit and one of the few things I don't regret about buying it. Silicone is much easier to clean and care for, not to mention safer to use. You also don't have to deal with the nauseating smell you get with rubber ones. With respect to the harness, the double strap is far more comfortable than g-string harnesses. Without the annoyance of having to adjust a sneaking strap, I was able to focus on my movements. And the loosening straps weren't frustrating until the end.

For that reason, I'd easily recommend the harness, but if you are looking for a more filling experience, perhaps investigate bigger sizes.

And by started to like it more, I mean marginally. The dildo hasn't grown over night, but my enjoyment of teasing has. As it's still too skinny to be fully satisfying, it does hold certain arousing qualities in the slight bend of it's shape that tickles my g-spot when seriously thrusted. The harness, however, has certainly grown on me. I have to make sure the straps are really tight and secure before beginning, but I don't struggle as much with them loosening once I really get going. I guess that's one way I've learned to work around a minor inadequacy in the design.

Nonetheless, my review hasn't changed much. I still would recommend the harness because the style is extremely comfortable, while only recommending the dildo to extreme beginners who aren't overly fond of real girth. Or anyone looking for a relatively pleasurable tease.