I have a cute harness already - I have the Syd harness by Outlaw Leather. It's an adorable harness. Patent red leather, pyramid studs, and giant safety pins. A little punk rock, a little rockabilly, a lot of my personality. However, I'm not the biggest fan of leather (I've been a vegetarian for 17 years), I wanted a harness I could use in the shower (and possibly in my building's hot tub/swimming pool), and something a little less ostentatious for certain situations.

I found all this and more within the Spareparts Joque Harness. Holy crap, this is the most comfortable harness I've ever tried on in my life (and I've tried on a good many). Its material is extremely soft, and gentle on the skin, and it adjusts easily, and in a huge variety of ways, so that you can make it fit perfectly. Better yet, I was able to switch off with my partner, and she only had to make a few minute adjustments to make it fit perfectly for her. Brilliant!

Also, this harness is machine washable, which is awesome (and great for sharing with partners). It can be used in the shower (fun times, but just be careful about secure footing), in pools, and more. The o-ring is built in, so can't be changed (ie, you can't use the Hottie Extra with this), but fits a pretty big variety of dildos, so it's not really an issue.

I have the blue one. I'd actually wanted the black, but it was continually out of stock, so I settled. However, the blue is actually really nice looking; it's slightly iridescent, and I feel really fucking hot while wearing it. The best part is where it sits - when wearing it, the base of the dildo fits perfectly against my clit, which feels amazing for the wearer.

Another awesome feature is that it has a HUGE variety of sizes, so it's wonderful for big and small people alike (and can be used by XX and XY bodies).

All in all, I'm in love. With a harness. And my partner freaking loves it too. We both highly highly recommend it, to anyone!