The Vibrating Mistress by Vixen Creations was intended for use as a vaginal and/or anal dildo (remember to sanitize between anal -> vaginal use!). There is a hole in the base for a bullet, just in case you want to turn this lovely toy into a vibrator! It's a relatively thin dildo, so it would probably be good as a first dildo, or as an introduction to sex toys. However I should caution that it is relatively floppy. I don't think it's too floppy, but you might. Maybe this toy could be an intro to silicone toys. As a first toy, I'd recommend that G-Spot Pink over this one. However if the idea of using glass doesn't sit well with you, the Vibrating Mistress might be a great choice.

It's also been reported that the Vibrating Mistress works very well in a harness. I don't own one but I'm sure this would be the case.

The Vibrating Mistress is made out of Vixen silicone. Note that this shouldn't be confused with Vixen's Vixskin silicone. Vixskin is softer, however some say that it requires more maintenance as it is more fragile. I have 3 Vixskin toys (Raquel, Lonestar and Randy) and I don't really do anything extra to keep them intact. However I am more careful during cleaning and I ::really:: make sure that they're dry before I put them back into their packaging.

Despite my preference for Vixskin, Vixen Creations' regular silicone is quite soft! I would say that it's softer than Tantus' silicone. It's also softer than Tantus' O2 silicone.

Compared to the Vixen Creations' Astrovibe and Vibrating Champlette, I would say that the Mistress feels just a bit softer. However I think this might be due to its thinner build. The other toys are a bit firmer because they are so much thicker!

Aside from the head of this toy, the Vibrating Mistress is completely smooth. The back of the toy is also "pinched" up to create a more realistic shape, however this small amount of texture can't be felt during use. I'm attaching a picture in my personal comments section, so take a look!

The Vibrating Mistress has a circumference of 4" and a length of 6" (when it is extended. It has a rounded base that makes gripping easy. It's also designed to fit in a harness. There is a hole in the base for a bullet. This hole is approximately 2 inches long. Depending on the strength of the bullet (and the freshness of the batteries), vibrations from an inserted bullet can be felt throughout the toy. I lost the included bullet, so unfortunately I can't report on its effectiveness. However I can say that I've never had a problem with Vixen Creations' bullets.

The Vibrating Mistress is also molded with a "head" at its tip. This head has a ridge, which separates the the head from the shaft. This ridge was uncomfortable for me during use, however it might not bother you. It's not as deep as the ridge in the Vibrating Champlette, but it's still noticeable. Actually, it's probably proportional in size to the ridge in the Vibrating Champlette.

The size worked OK for me. If it wasn't for the head, I would like this toy a bit better. It is slightly smaller than the Raquel, which is also made of Vixskin. I do prefer the size and texture of the Raquel, but the Raquel doesn't come in this pretty blue! I'm glad that I have this toy, and it will get a lot of use, however it's just not my favorite.

The Vibrating Mistress performed adequately. There are better toys out there, but there are also worse. Since its head is smaller, and a little bit more pointy, it doesn't perform as well as the Raquel. Despite the Raquel's floppiness (it's floppier than the Mistress), I find it far easier (and far more comfortable) to use for hitting my g-spot.

That being said, I do like the Vibrating Mistress. It's color is also really pretty. It "performs" well as a colorful addition to my toy collection. I won't use it as often as I use my Vixskin toys (or my other Vixen toys), but it will definitely get some use.

The Vibrating Mistress is made out of silicone, so it's not compatible with silicone lubricant. I always clean mine with soap and water, but if you want to sanitize it feel free to boil it or spray it down with a 10% bleach solution (rinsing afterward). I store this toy in its original packaging.

The Vibrating Mistress comes in a traditional Vixen Creations tube. However this tube is slightly thinner than the other tubes, as the Mistress is slightly smaller. There isn't any profanity on the tube so I guess it could be used as a gift box, but it is see through and the Vibrating Mistress isn't exactly discreet. If this doesn't bother you, then feel free to use it as a gift box!

I took a picture of my (colored) Vixen Creations toys. Take a look!



From left to right we have the Astrovibe, Vibrating Champlette, Vibrating Mistress and Raquel. It's a party!