The Bikini Harness and Silicone Dong Set make a great gift, travel partner, or beginner's kit. Why beginner's? Everything you need and good quality for a lower cost without having to look for a dong compatible with a certain size harness ring or a harness that fits.

The harness is a step up from Sport Sheets' Bare as You Dare Harness. It's an adjustable G string that fits hips up to 52 inches. It uses plastic side buckles instead of hardware on each side, for a comfortable adjustment. It also has an adjustment buckle near your coccyx (tailbone), and a decorative steel ring above that for design purposes only(or you could tie someone's arms behind their back and loop it through the ring)

The front of the harness is a very washable, small triangle of polyester fabric with a slightly padded, felt-like feel,and it is extremely soft, cool and comfortable and again, small. The triangle of fabric is smaller than my hand, and very flexible with movement, so this is a plus for many people who do not like a hard latigo leather dashboard in front of their mons pubis. In fact, it's really just an adjustable black G-string, and it is so incredibly non-bulky, you can wear it under clothing. The harness does not bleed color during washing or sweating.

The harness has a built in ring with virtually no stretch to it. The maximum size dildo I could push through was an inch and a half in diameter. This makes it uniquely perfect for slim anal dildos and also for packing a little pecker packer in your pants.

The harness set comes with the Sedeux Skyn Dildo. This can be purchased separately as well. I bought one years ago for pegging. It's still alive somewhere at someone's apartment. It's pure silicone, so its not something you have to toss after a couple uses like jelly.

It's a dong on the smaller side. It measures 6 inches (which is standard American penis size according to my Urologist friends) and an inch and three eigths in diameter. 5% 1/4 inches are insertable. It has a slight bulbous bump where a frenulum would be located. It's completely smooth textured and shiny. No veins or ripples, smooth. Unrealistic too. A cool metallic purple with a wide flanged base if you wanted to use it sans harness, rectally. Its firm, but flexible. There is no floppiness factor here. It has a rubbery feel, it can be bent half way with the hands, and it gives resistance and bounces back, so I would not classify this as a "hard dildo". It's just right...

Because it is silicone, use a condom, especially for anal play, and plenty of water based lube. You can boil it for 3 minutes, its top shelf dishwasher safe, ten percent bleach solution safe, and antibacterial soap friendly.

The Skyn dildo has that bulbous lip which is good for applying pressure to the G-spot or the P spot.

I found this harness stayed in place with no slippage. The O-ring is small so the largest dildo I pulled through was a packer, and Sedeux's red Flame was compatible (also nice for anal). The front piece was ideally comfortable, I hate G-strings - always-they are annoying to me. I thought the silver steel O in the tailbone and the tiny little adjustment pull was uncomfortable, but then a few years ago I broke my coccyx ice skating backwards and getting knocked into. The dildo is too small for large people to have missionary position vaginal sex unless creative. It was quite ideal for pegging a volunteer friend with benefits.

I think this is a kit worth looking into.

This is a really comfortable harness, especially with the use of a packy. Don't expect it to be a great harness for sex play because your genitalia are covered, and it can only support smaller dildos as the o-ring is not adjustable.