This strap is absolutely amazing. It is comfortable, easy to use and easy to maintain. You get none of the shifting around during use that inevitably comes with other straps and the broad, cushioned waist band does not dig into your skin. Along with being great for dildos is also a good soft packing strap and is super comfy to wear under clothes and has no metal parts (making it completely airport safe), which makes it a great tool for FTM's, genderqueer folk, or those who are just interested in gender play. It's also completely water safe which makes it great for water play (shower, pool, etc.). It also looks good on anyone even those of us who would typically shy away from using elastic because of the way it tends to cut in. Not this baby. No way, no how.

As if that weren't enough, it is also worth mentioning that there is a satin-like pouch that you can choose to wrap around the base of your toy which is great for texture play or just keeping your balls in place. This nifty little pouch can also hold a vibrator. It just keeps getting better and better.

To maintain just toss it in the washer. Be sure to wash it on it's own the first few times as the color will bleed a little.

Getting the sizing adjustments down to begin with is a little fiddly. You have to adjust the velcro on the waist band so that it sits comfortably on your hips. The thigh straps have sliders on them so you have to get those to where you want them. Once you have it comfortable though you won't ever have to adjust it again unless your body changes (weight loss, weight gain, etc.) My girlfriend got hers adjusted and has now found out that she can put the strap on in dim lighting, under the covers in less time than it takes me to pee.

Something to note about the sizing: if you have larger thighs (even if you know your waist could fit into the smaller sized harness) I would go for the larger one just to be sure that the elastic that goes around your legs does not dig in or chafe.

Also keep in mind that if you have a dildo or packer that is made of porous material you will want to wash the strap a few times before you use it, as the dye will stain porous materials such as cyberskin.

All in all, the best $90 you will ever spend on a sex toy.

I love this harness more now that I did when I wrote the original post. It's just so damned perfect. I don't know that there's really a whole lot more you could say about a completely and perfectly adjustable strap that has no uncomfortable metal parts and is completely suitable to wear in the shower and is also machine washable? Really. Buy one. You'll adore the damn thing.

Also, for you out there who are into gender play. This strap is completely compatible with soft packer. It's just as comfy as anything else you'd used to pack with.