As my first suction cup dildo, I found the Fetish Fantasy Elite 4.5" dildo easy to ride. Interested in expanding my repertoire with toys and loving the hot water, I felt this was a good beginning. WOW, was I ever right! It only took me 3 tries to get it at the right height as I stepped into the shower and just slid it up and down the wall to adjust. I have a Bath Fitters shower/tub enclosure so I did not have to deal with ceramic tiles.

Because it has a wide flared base, this can easily be used in a harness for either vaginal or anal play. I didn't get the harness as part of the kit being offered at the time and wish now that I had. This dildo would be great with me sitting on my partner's leg, you know during those in-between times when we women still have more energy to burn?

I don't partake in anal play (well, at least, not yet), but see this as a possibility for beginner anal play with a dildo because the tip is so narrow. I did see in a previous review of Fantasy Elite 4.5 dildo that if used anally it should be used with caution and with a harness because the flared base only measures 2 1/2" across.

The whole toy is made out of silicone, which has a smooth surface and a safety rating of 10.

It's totally submersible, meaning you can clean it easily in a tub of water or play with it in a tub of water.

Cleaning is a snap because it's submersible with antibacterial soap and hot tap water. Because this dildo has no motor, you can easily boil it for 3 minutes or toss it into the top rack of your dishwasher.

I love the dildo because it is made out of silicone and is pliable yet sturdy. There is a small seam that runs up one side of the curved shaft and down the other. I felt no discomfort from it at all.

And because this is silicone without any motor, it's waterproof and can be sterilized, making it a shareable toy, though I'm squeamish on that and selfish except with my life partner. I would advise that even though this can be sterilized, a condom should be used to add that extra measure of safety when sharing.

With the suction cup secured to my shower wall I measured this at 4 7/8" long.

My dependable retractable tool ruler measured the dildo alone at 4 3/4" long with the suction cup not stuck to the wall, so that makes an additional 1/2" by my measurements.

This is not a life-like dildo in shape or appearance by any means, but it has smart, clean, smooth lines tapering from 1 3/8" wide at the base of the dildo to 3/4" wide at the tip, not counting the rounded tip. I found the suction cup base to be 2 1/2" in diameter.

The shape and size is great for any beginner because of its non-intimidating shape with a beautiful pink shade as well as its thin elegant design. It kind of looks like a rocket with the nose cone tipped to one side.

Not only was I able to doggie-style myself in the shower, but I found this so easy to slip in that I turned it the other way. It seems this toy has no real up or down per se, just whichever way you enjoy it. Just think, girls: slipping into the shower, sticking this on the wall, end pointed down. Yes that's right, it hits just in our most erotic zone you can think of.

The suction cup stuck well to the wall during play, except when I became a little too ambitious and tried moving in circles - then it slipped from its perch. Not being discouraged, I placed it back on the wall and this time was a bit more careful. Perhaps they could make a suction cup like one of those apple peelers to reinforce the suction?

Although, after play at noontime, I left it stuck on the shower wall for 10 hours without it falling. I only took it down to finish this review.

I always like to quote the EdenFantasys guide to materials in my reviews for credibility on care and maintenance. This toy is made of silicone, which has a material safety of 10. Its components include semi-organic polymer, a man-made material. Silicone retains heat, repels dirt and bacteria, and doesn't fall apart with extended friction.

It can be disinfected by boiling it for 3 minutes or by putting it in the top rack of your dishwasher. You can also use anti-bacterial wipes or anti-bacterial spray. I soak mine for 20 minutes in hot only tap water with antibacterial soap.

I did notice a groove between the suction cup base and the dildo itself so extra care needs to be taken where the two meet. I've uploaded a photo on the initial product page zooming in on this connection.

This toy can only be used with water-based lubricants.

The material is body-safe, hypo-allergenic, phthalate-free, and latex-free.

The non-discreet box, while pretty pink and white with attractive lettering, clearly shows a picture of the dildo on the front and in a harness on the back. No, there is no doubt whatsoever about what this is if you pick up the box, though at least there are no nude pictures on it. If I had a very good friend I would present this to them privately.

The box is your standard sturdy box 6" tall x 4" wide x 3" deep. Of course that's not including the 1 1/2" extended piece on the top as if it were to hang from a rack. Still, all the lettering is stylish and informative.

No directions or instructions are included on the box but none are needed. Even as a first timer with this toy it was a no-brainer. Included in the packaging was 2 sealed 1 oz bottles in a single knotted plastic bag. One bottle is water-based lube and the other is toy cleaner. The tops of each bottle are screw-top so watch how you place them when applying, especially the lube.

Also included in the package is an adjustable silicone mask that's folded into its own plastic bag but spreads open flat when taken out. Because silicone toys should stay separated, the dildo itself is wrapped in its own separate packing-type disposable bag heat sealed shut.

No toy bag comes with this product which would be nice for travel and would fit much easier in a small piece of luggage then the indiscreet box.

This suction cup dildo was so easy to use. Before I showered, I left it on the wall while I showered, only to feel it was beckoning to me. Kind of like, "Come hither, little girl, and try me on for size." Sure enough, I couldn't resist, and found myself being pleasured once again.

During the day today I could only wonder what other toys would go well with it. Glass would, for sure, so next time I'm planning on putting in my glass eggs with the Ultra Heat lube - why not? I do during intercourse. And what about a little vibrating action? Oh yes, my Lelo Tiani 2 would complement it nicely. And let's not forget the pink mask it comes with. It doesn't block out the light and you can see the pink material if you open your eyes but who likes the bright bathroom light? So yes, the next time, the waterproof silicone mask will follow, adding extra sensory feel to the experience.

I had a tough time naming this review; so many titles flew into my mind, but down deep, it was easy, there is no doubt about that. "Over Under," of course, is in reference to tip pointing either up or down.

Because this is my first time with a suction cup dildo, I used probably too much lube, more than I normally would. I wasn't quite sure how I would line myself up, wasn't even sure I'd be successful. But I was and it was so easy I couldn't believe it. Only a couple of easy adjustments and I was moving as though it were real.

As I said earlier, I used it before I showered, then again after, only instead of using more lube, I felt comfortable enough to just back right up into it, or rather it into me. I will be looking forward to showers much more often now and earlier in the day so as to have my fun time. You need to understand, I work second shift at the office, therefore my hours are much different than the average first shift personnel.

Sometimes it gets boring at work, my mind wanders... and now I'll have something extra pleasurable to remember just before I got there!