My male partner often tells me I'm “such a boy” because I like to dry-hump his ass. I love when he's able to enjoy anal play, and I've wanted to fuck his butt for a while. I'm also into women and would like to strap on a dildo and get it on with a hot lady if the situation presents itself. Both of these desires have been building for quite some time, and at some point, I decided I needed to get a harness.

I chose Commando as my first dildo harness for a few reasons. First, it's made of leather, which I figured would be sturdy, comfortable, and fit well around my hips. Second, its minimalist design looked hot and is compatible with double dildos, like my Nexus Jr. Finally, Commando can be worn with two straps in the back, or just one, g-string style. I like having options.

Commando arrived in a resealable clear plastic bag with a tag attached to the waist band. The tag provided care information and stated that Commando is “guaranteed for LIFE!” I agree on their decision to write “life” in all caps; it's a pretty impressive guarantee. Commando should be cleaned with a damp cloth and dish soap or leather cleaner, and always patted dry immediately. Store Commando someplace dark, dry, and cool.

This dildo harness has a waist band, two short straps in front, and two longer straps attached to the back of the waist band. The waist band is adjusted with buckle closures, while the back straps fit snugly through two D-rings. The two short straps in front have two snap options to help your dildo or prosthetic sit a little higher or lower. Once all the straps are adjusted, everything stays put really nicely. The only downfall of this system is that minor D-ring adjustments during use can take a bit of patience.

When you put the harness on, there are two buckle closures on the waist band, each with 12 holes for a fine-tuned fit. Since the back straps can slide along the waist band as needed, you can adjust the buckles without worrying about them being on the same hole. I like one side on the 9th hole from the end and the other on the 10th. The waist band measures ~30” at its narrowest (12th holes), and ~47” at its largest (1st holes).

Commando comes with a rubber o-ring (inner diameter 1 7/8”), which can easily be removed by unsnapping the four straps from it. Most of my toys fit through the included o-ring, but I had to use a larger one for the Vixen LoneStar.

The minimalist design, reflected in the name Commando, provides many unique features. Less material means more access to skin and genitals. Commando holds a toy directly against the body, allowing for grinding and pressure sensations, which I like. If you'd rather not have a toy's base against you, place a scrap of fabric between you and the base. The straps easily adjust for dildos with large bases or balls, which is really nice. Commando isn't bulky, which means I can almost forget about the leather straps and focus on my cock, my partner, and our pleasure.

Initially, I wasn't used to how leather straps feel against my butt and thighs. The straps squish my butt when I tighten them, and that was a new feeling. After some quality time with Commando, I'm really happy with it. The leather feels great and doesn't dig into my skin. It's more comfortable than I imagined it would be, and it held toys tightly against my body. The one problem I've noticed is that the leather sheds all over my toys, but I think this will decrease with use. I prefer the double strap system because I don't like the thought of having leather against my vulva and ass since I can't sanitize it.

So far I've only fucked masturbation sleeves and the air (air sex is like air guitar, but with more fingering). Both were quite fun. Though I prefer lighter, stiffer dildos for ease of control, I had the most fun wearing my heavy, realistic LoneStar dildo. When I turn to the side in front of a mirror, the base of the toy is hidden, so I look like I've really got a huge cock. My Share XS feels better when I harness it, too. I like how Commando presses the external portion against my clit and mons. Overall, I feel that this harness is an excellent first harness, and might be the only harness I need for a long time.