This harness is a basic staple for strap-on play, with ease of use and low cost making it essential for any beginner. If you're looking to dip your toe into the genre or are already experienced in this type of play, this harness won't let you down.
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Pros
Easy to clean, simple to don/doff, adjustable size, comfortable to wear
Cons
Doesn't fit plus sizes, difficult to swap toys while wearing
This is a very easy to use harness, great for beginners. Just slip it on, tighten the straps, and get thrusting! It works very well for pegging, gives you good control over where the dildo goes and leaves you hands-free to play with your partner.
It's made with nylon and polyurethane, so you don't need to worry about latex or leather. The straps are very secure and are not uncomfortable as they press into your skin. While the straps need to be snug to work, the hunger in your partner's eyes when they see you dressed up in this harness will make you forget any self-conscious thoughts about muffin top.
There was a faint rubbery odor when it first came out of the packaging, but that quickly dissipated. The front panel does not chafe during play, though I have not tried it with a waxed/shaved pubic region.
The straps are thick nylon strapping, made to withstand significant force. They're sewn together with strong thread that resists even very rough play. The only weak spot would be the slits in the front panel where the straps pass through because they are not reinforced. However, the material is made not to rip and did not tear even after I tugged substantially. The adjustable straps have plastic buckles that feel pretty strong. This isn't a luxury heirloom harness to be passed down for generations, but it'll hold up to some fun playtime for a long time.
It comes with interchangeable o-rings that are very simple to swap out. Make sure you select the one that securely fits your dildo and won't let it slip free during sex. If you're using this for anal play, make sure your dildo has a large enough flange that it cannot get lost in the colon.
With the adjustable straps, this harness will fit women's dress sizes 0-18, I would guess. As a size 10-12, it fits me well as long as I cinch it tight. Sure, it cuts into my love handles and thighs, but the straps are never uncomfortable and I can't feel self-conscious about it because my partner can't keep their hands off me when I'm wearing this.
To be honest, this harness has taken a little bit of a beating. And it's performed really well in many positions. It sits low on the pubic bone, giving you a more realistic feel and better control over the dildo. If you use a vibrating dildo, it'll hit close to your clit rather than up on your pubic bone like some other harnesses will. As long as you insert the dildo into the harness before putting it on your body, it's simple to take on and off. Swapping o-rings and switching dildos is also simple if you're not already wearing the harness. It's changing toys while wearing the harness that's a clumsy business and ill-advised.
The harness is machine washable (but don't dry because the plastic buckles may melt) and hand-washable (if you share laundry machines and don't want someone seeing evidence of your kinky life). Make sure you clean it after each use as it's likely to get fluids on it and you don't want it to become a breeding ground for bacteria. Easy to store because it's only as large as the front panel, this harness can slip into any drawer.
My partner loves this harness because it lets him have the experience of being penetrated and leaves my hands free to touch him. Unlike brief or underwear harnesses, he gets some access to me while I'm wearing it because it has such minimal coverage. The front panel stays secure so I don't have to keep on adjusting it during sex. It stays put so that I can stay inside him. I've used it for six months with no complaints from either of us.
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