The Lover’s super strap® harness is a two strap (jock style) harness. I did quite a bit of research before selecting this harness. I wanted something that would be comfortable as well as versatile and didn’t break the bank. I found this particular harness to be very comfortable and easy to use. The straps have to be sorted out each time we put it on, but it isn’t too complicated and just takes a moment. My wife and I are pretty average sized, but there is still plenty of space to adjust the harness larger or smaller if you need to. Having a removable o-ring is a big plus because then you can use different size o-rings to allow for different size dildos. Also, the felt pad in the front is removable if it is in the way (e.g. if you are using it to help her support the feeldoe) and it has a little slot where a bullet vibrator could be inserted to provide some stimulation to the wearer.

After receiving this harness and showing it to my wife, I realized that I had made a small error because she was completely turned off by the included dildo. She thought that the color was gaudy and even the shape bothered her. I think she said “it looks like something I would imagine being in a cheap porno!” This wasn’t a huge problem as we have other strap-on dildos and have acquired more since. Another potential problem is that it only comes with one o-ring, but I made sure to have extras on hand so that we could fit whichever toys we wanted to use. If I had it to do over again, I would probably select the Vibrating velvet harness instead as it comes with three o-rings, a bullet vibe, and no dildo, so I wouldn’t be throwing any pieces of it away before they wore out.

Anyway, we have successfully used this harness in several different ways. For ideas on how a harness can fit into a heterosexual relationship look here. My wife has worn it for role reversal, and I have worn it for both single and double penetration on her. We have also used it with no less than seven different dildos of varying diameters (from the Compact to Johnny) by just swapping out the o-ring. We have found this harness to be very useful and versatile and it is often pulled from our toy box for all sorts of different activities, but we have yet to use it as part of a Halloween costume.

The Lover's Super Strap Harness continues to be the only harness in my collection. This seems kind of silly considering all of the high end toys that get put in it. The thing is, I'm a pretty cheap guy and unless I can really justify the purchase of a replacement harness, I'm not going to get one. What would it take to justify a replacement?

1. If it didn't fit or was uncomfortable - not the case
2. If it didn't meet its designed function - not the case
3. If it broke - hasn't happened yet

Don't get me wrong, if some one were just giving a nice leather harness away that had the same functionality, I would jump all over it, but I don't see that happening any time soon. So, until then, I'll just keep using the Lover's Super Strap Harness until it breaks.