If this had been our first experience with dildos it would have been a disaster... definitely not a beginner's toy! The harness however was a huge success and has opened up a whole new world for both her and him, although we will be purchasing a dildo more appropriate and complimentary to our requirements and the harness.

Overall while fun was had with this, I wouldn't buy it again and more than likely would not buy it for a friend. I might have enjoyed it more if it had been possible to get a truly snug fit while wearing this and thus keeping from having to make adjustments all through play.

The Stormy Metallic Harness is a perfect buy for those starting out in gender-play. It fits well, is priced right, and works in all the right ways. For those more experienced in gender-play, I suggest looking into a higher-end model Vac-U-Lock model.