I’m a harness snob. I don’t know when that happened, but sometime after my first nylon harness and before my most recent acquisition- the Spareparts Joque|SpareParts joque harness- I became very demanding of my harnesses. Typical problems I encounter are comfort, fit on my body and with a cock I’m using, and adjustment range/hold- I had to punch my own holes in one harness that should have been the right size. The Joque addresses all of these demands.

The first thing I noticed about the Joque was the unique attachment of leg straps to waistband. This feature is not one of the things touted in the description or on the company’s website, but let me tell you, it’s fabulous. Anyone with hips and a solid harness history probably been frustrated with the way some leg straps slide around on the back of a waistband, or just don’t sit where they actually do their job (I know I have!). These leg straps are secured on the front half of the harness, so that they actually do wrap around my body and keep the harness more secure. When I had my cock in place, the weight of it didn’t shift the position of these straps as it has in other harnesses. As far as comfort- everyone is right. This is, by far, the most comfortable harness I’ve ever worn. I occasionally sacrifice comfort for style- my favorite rubber harness often leaves black marks and deep indentations on me- but I can imagine wearing the Joque for hours without being hurt by it. The material is fairly breathable, and was easy to wash in the sink with some hand soap when I was done with it.

I was concerned about the expandable o-ring, mainly because anything stretchy will tend to stretch too much. However, after squeezing my thick (2” diameter) cock through and fucking my boy from behind for a while, I have faith in this o-ring.

Last, but not least, the adjustment process. No buckles or d-rings here- this harness uses strong Velcro for the basic waist sizing, and buckles for leg straps and further adjustment of the waistband. These buckles hold better than d-rings- even while fucking in a standing position that puts a fair amount of tension on these parts, I didn't have to stop for adjustment.

Other possible uses that I have yet to try:

Adding penetration of the wearer. The pouch looks like it will indeed hold something inside me, if I so desire, or keep a vibrator in place.

Hard packing. I haven’t yet mastered the art of packing hard without being too indecent to go out in public, but I have some ideas for how this harness might help. More on that later. ;)