This harness kit is perfect for the beginner but durable enough for the experienced user. The Black Rose comes with a purple, lacy harness, dildo, 2 O-rings, and a container of powder for using the vacu lock function.

The dildo is able to be used anally or vaginally and since the harness is adjustable, almost almost anyone can wear it!

Personally, I use this between two females.

I have traveled with this dildo and harness kit but I wouldn't say it's travel friendly as it is a little heavy & doesn't really bed for compact or discreet travel.

The harness straps are neoprene and not the most comfortable. I wish they were a less scratchy material, but the adjustability means they can be loosened as to not dig in.

The dildo is made of safe silicone which is what drew me to this product. However, the material of the dildo has a lot of drag which means it does need lube. Also, it attracts lint and hair quite a bit! It needs to be used within moments of washing. The dildo is quite firm but can be bent slightly with force. Unfortunately, the firmness of this hits my cervix & creates a little too much pain if my partner isn't careful.

The dildo has a slight curve for G-spot stimulation, and there are three bulbs, the first being located 3" from the tip, the second being directly beneath that, and so on. To me, the bulbs are way too painful & when I use it, I have to make sure my partner is very careful to not insert very far. I honestly wish the bulbs weren't there.

The harness has straps around your waist and the two around your thighs. The fact that it is adjustable is great so that everyone can use it but if you're petite, you may have a lot hanging and want to take a pair of scissors to the extremely long Straps.

The front of the harness is purple with a black rose-patterned lace overlay. There is also a satin black rose. It does take the scariness of a harness out of it if it's your first one or you really want to keep it girly! The harness definitely can withstand many uses and is of sturdy design and stitching.

On the front of the harness, where the dildo slides on are two sturdy, rubbery O-rings. One goes directly over the dildo, situated at the base. The other can be left in place behind the dildo for later use or simply stored with your lubricants and such for later.

The dildo, in total, is 6" long; 5 1/2" of it is insertable. It has a diameter of 1 1/2". The first bulb measures 5" around, the second not quite 5 1/2". Too me, these bulbs are too large.

The harness is listed as a "one size fits most," which is true. It will adjust to fit most. The harness will fit a maximum of a 62" waist and a 40" leg/thigh.

This is not something you could pack for every day wear as the dildo doesn't bend.

The harness is definitely something I'll be keeping and can see it lasting for a long time. It's not too hard to take on and off and the straps adjust super easily. Taking the dildo on and off, is not the easiest task and takes some force, but it can be done.

Unfortunately, the dildo hits my cervix too hard and the bulbs are too big for me! Although we have used this a lot, it takes extra concentration for my partner to make sure they are going slowly and not hitting my cervix or inserting up to the second bulb so it takes a lot of concentration which really takes us out of the moment.

The harness can be hand washed easily & the dildo cleaned with toy cleaner. It's not the easiest to store due to the rigidness of the dildo.

There weren't any instructions, so set up took some inferencing. I wasn't sure what the powder was for and had to google it!