What a toy! Gina Lynn's Bendable Wireless Harness is perfect for both men and women. Yes, you heard me right, men. Normally, a lot of people take one look at a harness and think that it's just for women. While it's wonderful for gender play it can also be used on men. A lot of us already know that prostrate stimulation is wonderful. My girlfriend introduced me to it. She also introduced me to play with a harness. She just puts it on and she's in control. It's both liberating for the both of us, and a lot of fun. There's something erotic about breaking the rules. This harness is so easy to use that it's perfect for beginners, so don't worry if you've never used a harness before.

The entire toy is made from foam and latex. That's right, latex. So if you're allergic to latex do not purchase this product. Also, always make sure that your partner is not allergic to latex before using.

This toy comes dusted in cornstarch and looked horrible when pulled out of the box. I had to wash this toy before it looked nice and new. Even so, the dildo was soft to the touch yet firm and weightless when inside. The toy is both odorless and tasteless.

This harness is made with a one size fits all latex panty. My girlfriend is a normal size women and the panty was tight on her. Even so, it fits her without discomfort. The panty is not adjustable and has a maximum size of a large. The dildo is permanently attached while the vibrating unit, a bullet, is removable. The only real compatibility with this toy is the ability to swap out differing bullets. That means you can place a multi-speed bullet in the unit if you desire.

I would have loved for this panty to be a little larger. Since many women in the United States of America are not fashion models, I think it is important to have harnesses that are of a comfortable fit. Now, my girlfriend is full figured. Her waist is about 35 inches but her butt is about 48. That puts her in the extra large size category. Even so, I thought she could squeeze into this, and I was right. If you are at the same or a smaller size the unit should fit nicely. If not, I would not recommend it.

I'm going to be honest, I really didn't have high hopes for this toy. I mean, the thought of wearing latex really made me think that it would be hard to put on. Even so, my girlfriend just slipped it on and got it to where she liked it. She complained that it was a little tight but found that the dildo was held up nicely and sturdy. We have another harness which does not have a sturdy hold on the dildo, so I was pleased that this one did. The dildo itself points downward, which I thought would be a little awkward but it ended up being perfect for my use.

I normally get down onto all fours or lay on my back for my girlfriend to penetrate me. The dildo is large, so we took our time slipping it in, but once it was in I was amazed. The shaft is virtually weightless. The latex covering made for a smooth slippery ride (always use lots of lube). Since the toy is soft, bendable, and very light, my girlfriend was able to give it to me hard, which she did.

The dildo is bendable, so we took a little time trying it in different positions. The only problem, it does not keep it's shape outside of the body. So, once my girlfriend inserted, we would experiment with different positions. I found that if I could get the shaft to point towards my prostate I could get excellent stimulation.

Finally, the vibrations do not carry well. In fact, the only thing that really vibrates at all are the balls. Even so, it feels amazing to have soft vibrating balls hit your flesh. A kind of teaser if you will.

This toy must be washed after each use. After our first use, I just washed it with soap and water and thought that was it. Boy was I wrong. The next day, when I pulled it out, I noticed that some cornstarch had evaded me. This toy is covered in little flaps which hold the bullet and support the shaft. These flaps also catch cornstarch and fluids. I learned the hard way that I have to be very careful when it comes to cleaning this toy.