I purchased this to use during intercourse with my husband. I thought it would be fun to use as a pretend threesome prop. I was pretty excited when it arrived. It is definitely bigger than I expected. I guess I didn't read the description well enough and thought it would be of average size; it's much bigger. This isn't a bad thing! I also couldn't believe how realistic it looked and felt! I was impressed! The suction cup worked really well on our headboard. This could be used alone or with a partner in so many different ways. We stuck it on our headboard as a prop, but you could use this without sticking it to anything, and it still would be fun. I loved that it wasn't rigid and stiff, and it was a huge turn on just having it there to touch and fondle. It was pretty easy to clean, but keep in mind that after being tossed around on the bed it gets things like fuzz and hair stuck to it, but with a quick spray with toy cleaner and a rinse, it was ready to go another round.