This harness is so hot, the black straps and cold metal rings are very enticing. The only thing about it is that the straps are skinny, maybe like 1/2 inch of nylon-like material. They also didn't have the softest edges; they are bumpy like a watch band or backpack straps, which don't feel too great down there. And isn't it all about the pleasure?

Despite the discomfort (since the strap is too skinny to distribute the weight of the harness yet too thick to lay flat down your rear like a thong) I even tried to wear it all day, because it looks so hot peeking out over jeans. I almost made it the whole day too, but that rear strap just kept turning to its side and digging in.

I had to trim off a lot of extra strap and singe the ends to prevent fraying, I guess it's made to fit a wide range of people, but it is perfectly adjustable to every size and shape. The snaps make for easy on-easy off; just don't get mixed up as to which strap is which. The shortest one goes underneath, long ones over the hips, easier on paper than in practice.

For play, I have only been using a little jelly butt plug (see: Jelly plug) to train my lover up gradually. It holds well, very little slipping, but I would probably only purchase toys with a good sized flared base to use with this.

The rings are nice and heavy and they give me goosebumps until they warm up. Very hot.

The only thing I would change if I could would be to maybe make another strap for underneath so that it would be more like a "crotchless" thong and maybe more comfy. As it is now I think I'll start wearing it over underwear or something!

As this was my first harness, I was truly excited about this. While it gave me many months of pleasure by simply feeling very sexy to wear like racy underwear, I realize now that it only 'did the job' when it came to actually holding toys onto my body. As I shop more and more harnesses, I realize that there are much more comfortable options out there. While I am still going to keep it around as a sexy underwear piece, it leaves me wanting more in comfort and stimulation for ME during play.