The SpareParts Joque harness is the harness I wish I had found years ago! It is perfect for both experienced strap-on users and beginners. While I was certainly tempted to order one of the sexier and/or frillier harnesses on the market, I am so glad I went with this one. Its comfort is unsurpassed and lets you just get down to business and practically forget you're wearing a harness.

The nylon/spandex material of the Joque harness is exquisitely soft. When I think about the cheap-o, scratchy plastic harness I had used in the past, I could weep to think about what I was missing by not owning this harness. The elastic straps that go around your thighs are soft and very adjustable. The side that goes against your leg is velvety soft, and the side that faces out is satiny smooth. The wide hip is made of the same elastic as the leg straps, just much wider (almost 2 inches). The entire backside of the hip strap is covered in soft velcro and has two tabs of "sticky" velcro that you use to fold the strap to size and fasten to the back.

The pouch portion of the harness is also very soft and comfortable. It is three layers of fabric: the front layer with an o-ring built in and then two overlapping layers behind that to form a pouch. Wearing this with no underwear on was super comfortable and the pouch material did not irritate my skin.

The harness comes with a really nice storage pouch that is soft and squishy. You can fit the harness in it either folded neatly or just shoved back in hastily!

The harness fabric doesn't have any kind of smell out of the box, but after a round of pegging the material around the o-ring had picked up some smells from the anal play. You'll want to wash it between uses for sure!

Because the o-ring is built into the front panel and covered in fabric, I found that inserting my Tantus O2 Niagara dildo through the ring from behind resulted in the dildo getting covered in lint and needing to be rinsed off. I solved this problem the next time by just inserting it right from the front - I just squeezed the flared base of the dildo through the flexible o-ring. No lint!

This harness is very well-made; I am not at all worried about it falling apart or falling off during use! This harness is designed with a built in o-ring that can accommodate dildos up to 2" in diameter. I have successfully used this with my two Tantus dildos - the O2 Niagara at 1.5" diameter and the Compact at 1" diameter. The smaller dildo's flared base was nice and secure even though the diameter of the dildo itself was a lot smaller than the ring. I was able to thrust to my heart's content and the smaller Tantus Compact stayed nice and snug. The large pocket behind the o-ring has plenty of room to slip in a clitoral vibrator (I used it with the speeding bullets armor piercing bullet vibe).

The B size harness is the larger size and fits sizes 35" to 65". The description says that this refers to waist sizes, but I think you should go by your hip size when deciding which harness to buy. You could actually wear these straps higher than your hips (as I accidentally did the first time I put it on), but the most comfortable and attractive way to position them is snugly around your hips.

The Joque harness was really easy to put on and adjust to my size using the velcro tabs on the side. You simply fold the excess length of the strap against your body and then fasten the velcro tab down. After adjusting it to size once, I leave the velcro tab on one side fastened and just open the other side when putting it on and taking it off. The leg straps are also easy to adjust and I found they don't really need to be super snug. This harness does a great job of staying in place.

I already mentioned this above in the material section, but I think it is worth mentioning again: if you are using a flexible silicone dildo (like the Tantus line) that picks up lint, insert it from the front of the o-ring by squeezing the flared base into the ring. Don't insert it from through the back of the pouch or the dildo will be covered in lint from squeezing through the fabric-covered ring!