I used this toy with the spare parts harness (https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toys-for-gender-play/packing-straps/spareparts-pete-commando-packer) and it is a match made in heaven. I never really had any kind of desire to pack, but when I found the harness and wanted to purchase it, I shortly thereafter found this little dude and knew we were destined for great things.

the primary reason I hadn't previously wanted to pack was that I wasn't really interested in "passing," and all of the other packies I had seen were bulky. I didn't have any desire for people to look at me and think I am a seriously hung cisgender dude, so I didn't see any reason to use packies or harnesses.

I used this toy with the spare parts harness (https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toys-for-gender-play/packing-straps/spareparts-pete-commando-packer) and it is a match made in heaven. I never really had any kind of desire to pack, but when I found the harness and wanted to purchase it, I shortly thereafter found this little dude and knew we were destined for great things.

all of the previous packies I had found looked oversized, bulky--like you could see it from the outside and know that what you're looking at is a person without a penis wearing a giant fake dick. I have no desire to be that person. but this one is not like that at all. I'm about 5'4" and 150 pounds, and this feels like a really realistic size. I personally don't like to pack every day, but using this with the spare parts harness that I linked above is comfortable enough that I could easily use it consistently and not be uncomfortable while wearing it. it looks good in a pair of tight jeans, which, in my eyes, is the best quality test you can do to evaluate a packy.

it is made of "superskin" which feels very squishy and sticky to the touch, but as a whole piece looks VERY realistic when used. it's helpful to use it with a harness that has a flap to separate the toy from your genitals, since it could easily stick to pubic hair a little bit and maybe be uncomfortable--not at all in any kind of major or dangerous way, just in a potential discomfort kind of way. when you grab it through a pair of pants and underpants, you could easily believe you were grabbing someone's actual dick through their jeans (minus the feel of cartilage and muscle, but even so it's really not that noticeable).

some folks prefer to keep toys made of sticky, squishy material like this in a bag of baking soda to keep them from drying out, but to be honest I just keep mine in my sock drawer (not intentionally ironically) and even in the harness and I've never had a problem with materials degrading or even changing at all.

design-wise, it is freaking awesome. the last thing you want in a packy is for it to be bulky and too stiff and look from the outside like you shoved a kitten in your underpants. this is definitely not that, the ratio of penis to balls is super realistic. I dont have sex with cis dudes, but I am a sex educator and I see a lot of penises. trust me, this one knows what it's doing. the shaft and the head (circumcised) are very detailed with veins, crevices, etc.--it isn't just a shapeless stick and two round things. the superskin it is made of is really realistic, and the shape of it changes when you move -- just like real genitals do. again, I'm 5'4" and I have a belly, and this looks like what I would expect my genitals to look like if I was a cisgender guy.

I feel like every way that this toy was supposed to look and work is, in fact, how this toy looks and works. for real. and I am finicky about what gender-diversifying toys I use, and I absolutely feel like this toy works for me and the shape looks realistic...not even just through clothing. it looks real when you're holding it in your hands.

I can't think of any performance critiques. it looks real, it feels real, it wears well, it keeps well. the superskin material looks like real skin, but it's a little sticky. it might be a good idea to keep it in a bag, and/or rinse it off and/or put it in baking soda to keep it from drying out --but again, I don't do any of that stuff, I've had mine for four years and not done any responsible things to take care of it, and it has zero issues.

yeah, again, some folks like to keep soft packs in baking soda, or maybe keep them in a bag to keep them from picking up lint or dust. I am terrible at adulting and have never done anything responsible with it, and four or five years later I still have a perfectly functioning (not like it has complicated functionality options), comfortable, usable packy with no issues. maybe clean it gently with water every once in a while if you're not keeping it in a bag, but again...I haven't done anything and mine is still great.

nothing special about packaging. normal, discreet, nothing complicated...etc.

totally rad, great company, smart purchase. realistic, easy to clean...seriously. I really don't have anything bad to say about it, other than the issue with the stickiness maybe pulling some body hair, but even that isn't really worth complaining about.

I'm a big queer femme dude and I don't have any desire to use something that makes me look like Jon Hamm, and this is a humble little normal-body-looking appendage. do it.