This is the first harness I've ever worn (other than homemade/DIY/temporary ones made out of scarves), and I was very impressed with it. I would recommend it as a harness for beginners, simply due to the price and how it fit, but advanced users could also have plenty of fun with it. Although it's marketed as a harness to use for pegging, the simple o-ring style can fit many different toys, and you could (theoretically) use it for gender play, or for strap on sex with anyone.

The kit itself comes with the harness and a very small silicone dildo. The dildo features a "g-spot curve" which could also be used to stimulate a prostate. It's much too small to use on anyone who is experienced with larger toys, whether anally or vaginally, but is perfect for beginning pegging or for vaginal beginners. I wouldn't recommend using this in any sort of watery situation, since the patch that the o-ring rests on is of a not very water resistant, velvety substance. It is small and discreet enough to be travel friendly, in my opinion.

After I slid into the harness and adjusted it, I walked around my room to get a feel for it. Other than the labia pinching mentioned earlier, it was incredibly comfortable and stayed place. I love the way the straps go underneath the buttocks instead of up the middle. It was easy to get the dildo into place, and everything stayed in place during the rest of the night. I used the harness and dildo solo (since I'm in a long-distance relationship, it's being used mostly for aesthetic/fantasy reasons until we can pull it out in person), but it stayed in place for pictures and some flirty thrusting into my hand. I would say that this harness is secure and sturdy enough for real thrusting, and didn't see any performance problems on my end. The dildo is placed so there's some light pressure on the pubic bone/clitoral area during thrusting, but it wasn't enough to merit an orgasm on my end.

While my experience was different due to my LDR, this harness and dildo combo was exactly what I was looking for. It's simple, user friendly, and non-intimidating, which is great for those of us who are just getting into pegging play. It's comfortable, flatters those of us with fuller behinds (yes!), and is a great, non-intimidating harness. I couldn't be more pleased.