I am so fed up with this mess. I have purchases 4 harnesses before this one. FOUR. This one will at least work which is more than I can say for the others while still maintaining some semblance of being sexy.

If you are needing the harness to fit upwards of a 50 inch hip like myself, then save yourself some time and order some longer laces for yourself. There are a lot of eyelets in the back so I had to tie two 72" laces together to make it work. This was a really irritating process, but now it finally fits and I can use it.

It's sexy I think with the lacing and the leather is supple which is a relief. Being kinky, too often I am sent really stiff leather on items that one is supposed to wear which is never comfortable. This you can put on right out of the terribly minimal plastic bag that it came in.

This is the jock strap style so the straps run between the legs and around the butt. They are tightened by looping through d-rings which makes it far more adjustable. The belt uses buckles. That makes it far less adjustable, but the lacing makes up for that.

On an aesthetic level, I love the mix of belt buckles, rivets, and laces. It's nicely feminine but still edgy which is perfect for my punkness.

The harness works really well otherwise. It's comfortable and highly adjustable since I replaced the lace.

Keep your harness out of direct sunlight because it is bad for leather, and keep it dry. you can wipe it down with a damp cloth to clean it, but you don't want to leave it wet. Especially don't store it wet. If it gets stiff, you can always you a leather conditioner on it.