The Hustler Hardcore Harness|Hardcore harness was my first harness purchase. Both my partner and I were extremely excited when we poured over Eden Fantasy looking for the perfect harness. We chose this harness for several reasons, from the design to the fit and were not disappointed.

Firstly we wanted a leather harness because it is a more durable material and it looks and feels more 'high quality.' I personally despise cheap looking clothing and the Hardcore Harness did not disappoint in this manner. Of course for a toy in the $80-$100 range I was naturally expecting this. When it arrived it came in simple packaging with a Hustler tag explaining the easy cleaning instructions and the features and qualities of the harness. It was beautiful to touch and smell.

There is a fine design on the belt portion of it, which is neither masculine or feminine so pleasing for any type of user. The leather is soft and pliable so doesn't pinch in any way. It also has ties all the way up the back which is incredibly sexy. It sits low on the hips and really does fit any size. I'm a size 4 and it fit nicely, with room to tighten and plenty of room to loosen if needed. It looked absolutely gorgeous when I wore it, almost like a dominatrix version of pretty lacy French underwear. I love this style more than the G-string harnesses because it makes me feel more feminine and oh so sexy, rather than feeling like I'm rigging up to jump out of an aeroplane! Also even though it sat fashionable low I could still reach and play with my clit easily with the harness on.

On the front of the harness the harness ring is held securely in place with four buckles that snap close. We unsnapped two of them and fit the Hawaiian Dreams Dildo|Hawaiian Dreams Dildo review in. It fit perfectly, it was snug and when I moved around it looked and moved just like a real cock. The way the ring is held in place makes it easy to interchange it with smaller or larger rings and therefore dildos. I loved how gorgeous and soft it looked, yet it commanded respect and I felt more in control looking at myself wearing the harness. It was incredible! My partner also shared the same thoughts, saying that the way the harness hugged my ass was hot yet at the same time the whole thing was slightly intimidating.

The first time we used it my partner lay on his back and I maneuvered the dildo into his ass. It was slightly difficult and so he lay on pillows and we tried again. Since it was our first time it was a little awkward and I felt like I was doing the splits in order to properly pump into him. He however enjoyed it immensely and came quickly (thank God because my contortionist skills were quickly ending.) Thrilled, I was desperate to try again to find a more comfortable way of playing with our new toy.

This time my partner bent over and it was MUCH easier to enter and keep pumping away. I loved every second of it and if I had wanted to, could have easily played with my clit at the same time. There was a slight irritation when the harness rubbed against my pubic hair, but it wasn't significant enough for me to worry or stop. However my partner was uncomfortable bending over so next time we need to find a better position that is comfortable for both of us; which we'll have a lot of fun finding!

After using the harness it was easy to clean. The ring just popped off after four easy snaps and was cleaned in warm soapy water along with the dildo. Since I am an extreme hygienic freak I use anti- bacterial soap and wash my toys a couple of times! The harness portion is easily cleaned with a damp wash cloth and the leather is maintained with leather cleaner and/or conditioner.

My partner and I absolutely loved using the Hardcore Harness and cannot wait to figure out the inns and outs of this beautiful, sleek and sexy garment/toy.

My partner helped me put it on the first time because neither of us have ever used a harness before. We just looked at the picture and made sure that it fit the right way. There were a few laughs when it was upside down and somehow the wrong way but that just eased the tension of using something potentially intimidating in the bedroom!

However if you want to put it on yourself, rest assured it is very easy; just look at the design and follow it.